I just watched "The last kiss" and it got me thinking. I don't think I could and I hope I never get to that place.
2007-01-27 15:53:31 · 44 answers · asked by White 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Hell No!!!! Right there with you.
Some people here are saying that if others were in the situation they were in, that everyone would give the cheater a second chance...I don't think that is fair to say. I have been in that situation and I wouldn't and won't even if and when it broke my heart. It is just my make up...I would rather feel pain from the break up than pain from being with someone who even once disrespected me...and I don't care what the reason was.
I do not think negatively on people who decide to and agree that not EVERYONE who cheats once is going to cheat again and give it another go. Glad it is working out for some people...but you are in the minority of cases. The truth is...the majority of cheaters are 'life time cheaters'.
Cheers
2007-01-27 15:58:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In theory, I would like to say that no, I would not give my husband a second chance if he cheated on me. However, I don't know that the situation would actually happen that way. It would really depend on the circumstances.
2007-01-27 15:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by lynette21638 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be the single hardest thing I would ever have to do, but I would defiitely try. My husband is a rare find and I would hate to think that one bout of incredibly bad judgement would toss the last 17 years out the window.
2007-01-28 01:42:29 · answer #3 · answered by comet girl...DUCK! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there and gave him another chance i dont believe once a cheater always a cheater ppl say it but if it happened to them i believe they would give the other person a chance... We are all human and make mistakes and when you have kids involved its hard to just push them out of your life but it wont ever happen again to me anyway if he does it he will not be with me again
2007-01-27 15:59:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I have given him a second chance and he has never cheated again. It is almost as though he feels so guilty about it that he bends over backward to try and please me. That was about 9 years ago and he is still being as nice as can be.
2007-01-27 16:00:02 · answer #5 · answered by icunurse85 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope! My man is *my* man. There's no point in forgiving someone for cheating... there's never an excuse for it, and besides, there are plenty of people out there who wouldn't cheat. Get with one of them.
2007-01-27 16:02:05 · answer #6 · answered by Rissa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. never. they'd be out like no other. my mom gave my dad a second chance, i still think she's a fool. im never quite the same around him now
2007-01-27 15:58:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, a second chance before I throw his sorry azz out!
2007-01-27 15:58:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends if it were a couple of moments of infidelity or a couple of months...
A drunken kiss is easier to get over than a complete, intimate other relationship.
2007-01-27 15:57:02 · answer #9 · answered by shortcake 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would depend on how much they meant to you and If they were truly sorry and wanted to change and you both worked hard at earning the trust back and forgiving them and just really busted *** at it.
2007-01-27 16:00:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋