I'm not a poser. I just hate my life. Thanks.
2007-01-27 15:44:38 · 28 answers · asked by Starstruck in LovE 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
What is emo? Please, don't hate your life. You are very young and there is a lot that you don't know. I remember when I was young. It was very sad. I had a very abusive father. You sound very stressed. That's not good. Go to a library and find a good book. Find a place where you can sit by yourself and just think and write down your thoughts on a sheet of paper. Think about your future. Why tight pants? That will just get you the wrong kind of attention and a loss of respect. Remember this: There are things that seem so important to you now. When you are an adult you will laugh about them. Don't hate your life. God made you for a purpose. If you have a Bible read it and seek God through prayer. There's a book that I think you should read. "The Fascinating Girl" by Helen Andelin.
2007-01-27 15:57:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you hate your life doesn't mean you have to be an emo and "wear tight pants".
Maybe you could get some help instead of dwelling on your problems.
Aaaand anyone who tries something they aren't is a poser.
2007-01-27 23:49:27 · answer #2 · answered by JJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A question for you ... if your parents said okay, you can be emo and wear tight pants, it's fine with us ... would you still hate your life? Is it your parents restrictions and lack of understanding and negative attitude that is making your life hell? How would you feel if they suddenly changed, recognized your individuality and need to express yourself, and relaxed about the whole thing?
My kids were semi goth/skater in middle & high school, with black clothes and multicolored hair of various lengths and changing styles. I never saw a reason to give them a hard time about any of that. They're both in college now, still with multicolored hair and baggy jeans and long dresses and piercings. And they've always been perfectly happy and pleasant. If I'd given them grief, I'm sure they would have rebelled, too.
2007-01-27 23:54:16 · answer #3 · answered by Bad Kitty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had to look on the net to see exactly what EMO is. Still looks sort of goth to me, but regardless...I believe that teens should be able to express themselves, no matter what the parents think of the style. Tell your parents that you just want to dress the way that you feel comfortable, that this IS you, and you would like them to accept the way you are. Tell them that it will not interfere in your grades. If you really do hate your life, then it is up to you to change it. Talk to your guidance councellor at school. Maybe you need some courses in self esteem. There is help out there if you seek it.
2007-01-27 23:52:43 · answer #4 · answered by Bewitched 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And wearing tight pants is the cure and will make you love your life?
Emo: An entire subculture of people (usually angsty teens) with a fake personality. The concept of emo is actually a vicious cycle that never ends, to the utter failing of humanity and it goes something like this:
1. Girls say they like sensitive guys (LIE)
2. Guy finds out so he listens to ***** emo music and starts dressing like a dork so that chicks will see that hes sensitive and not afriad to express himself (lie). He dyes his hair black, wraps himself in a stupid looking scarf and develops and eating disorder,
3. Now an emo guy meets and emo girl and they start dating, talking about how their well-off surburban lifestyles are terrible and depressing (big lie)
4. Emo guy is just to much of a crybaby, hes junk is to small, hes to depressed to bathe, and he has more mood swings than emo chick, and he doesnt even have a menstrual cycle. Emo chick dumps him saying "its not you, its me" (lie) as she drives off with Brian the school jock and captain of the football team
5. emo guy goes home and cries, proceeds to write a weak song and strum a single string on his acoustic guitar. Another emo chick sees how he is so in touch with his feelins...and the cycle continues
are you sure this is what you want to do?
2007-01-28 00:03:20 · answer #5 · answered by Sheriff of R&S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont' know your age but it's kind of mormal to "hate your life" from like 13 to about 16 or 17. Just chill and stick it out, and enjoy beign a kid while you can! I'm only 17 and I already feel the onrushing adult future bearing down on me 8-\
2007-01-27 23:48:03 · answer #6 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are lying , you love your life more than me , these are the same thoughts which had encompassed me year ago, but when i realized that i will never come again in world, i am provided with only one chance than why should not to love with. If you hate your life than you are fail.
Now for your parents, they love you so say any thing to them if you feel that you are right and justified, definitely they will never disappoint you. Take care of yourself
2007-01-27 23:58:51 · answer #7 · answered by ajs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm really sorry you hate your life. but time does pass...
but hating your life is not equal to being "emo". If you WANT to wear tight pants and black nail polish because you like the way they look or they feel good or they make you happy... please go ahead and wear them. You don't HAVE to simply because you hate your life.
2007-01-27 23:49:21 · answer #8 · answered by littlesally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All people who put themselves in cliques are posers. Stop hating life and cheer up emo kid.
2007-01-27 23:48:00 · answer #9 · answered by Derek 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
do it. Just dont wear your pants too tight or you might not be able to have kids in the futre. But you hate your life anyway, so you probablly don't want kids to begin with.... what the hell. Wear them as tight as your little buns can go.
2007-01-27 23:47:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋