Why do some men say that they need sex?

Question

This question isn't intented to insult or belittle men. I have noticed that some men insist that they need sex and wives should have sex with their husbands even if wives don't feel like it.

Does anyone truly want to have sex with someone who doesn't want to have sex with them?

Answer 1

Most men are sexually driven , they were made physically to be that way..and from what ive read depending on a mans levels of testosterone tend to have alot to do with their sex drive...

And if you read the bible (and by no means am i a bible thumper) but , there is a passage in the bible that says that a wife shouldnt ever deny her husband sex nor should a husband every deny his wife sex.. so take it for what its worth..

Answer 2

For once i wish men would just tell the truth to their wives.I'm talking about all the wives out there that say my husband would never cheat on me.He respects me and loves me to much to hurt me like that.And why should he go out when I'm here for him when ever he needs it . It's funny but these women really believe that their husbands wouldn't do that to them.Little do they no that because they have all this trust in their men, that is how they get away with it .The husbands no that their wives would never in a million years think that their men were capable of doing such a horrific thing to them.Until they walk in on their husbands having sex with another woman the wives will continue to kiss their husbands good bye in the morning and send them off to be with all the female co-workers.And for all you wives out there the work place is were your husbands are getting what they are not getting at home.Doesn't matter or have anything to do with how much they love you or how many times you have sex it's all about the sex being with a different woman.I no most of you out there won't or can't believe this so ask your man about this, if he says I'm crazy and don't no what I'm talking about well then i would start to worry about the late nights he has been spending at the office.

Answer 3

While I don't think their wives should do it if they don't want to. I mean...does the husband not have hands anymore?

I do think men need it. Or at least feel as though they need it. Need might be too strong of a word. But men are very sexual creatures by nature. Without sex they'll get very tense. Aggressive. They go crazy. And if they get horny and nothing becomes of it they get what is called "blue balls" which is where their balls hurt. Apparently its not fun but from what i hear its not totally unbearable.

A wife should have sex with her man every now and then though. If he's not gettin it from her he'll go out and get it some where else. That and its just the nice thing to do lol

Answer 4

Men dont really need sex they just think they do.... It is desire and a want not really a need... Really in marriage you should have intimacy and making love and it is not just sex!!!! If the men would romance the wives througout the day and show them love and attention and help them get in the mood then maybe the wives would feel more like being intimate... Am i right on this one ladies? Also if they would please the woman in bed and not just want to be pleased themselves this would make a difference... My husband loves giving me oral and making sure i climax first before he enters me:) I would not have it any other way!

Answer 5

I went to couples counceling years ago and even the shrink said you have to give up the sex even if you don'twant to. Your partner may want to have sex more than once a month and you have to do this for him or her. If you don't want to have sex on a regular basis than you shouldn't have gotten married. Just because you are tired or not in the mood or just simply lame doesn't mean that your partner should suffer.. If your partner doesn't get sex from you they will start looking elsewhere. One person said that masturbation is good enough. If this was true than why did you get married?

Answer 6

Thinking about it becomes a distraction. But "need" is too strong a word.

Forcing someone is wrong and stupid and selfish. But women shouldn't promise sex on demand 24/7/365 before marriage if they aren't willing to follow through on that promise after marriage. It is this very mis-representation that causes huge conflicts and ruins many marriages.

Answer 7

Don't you know that women produce only one egg per month. Do you know how horny they can get with just one egg a month ?

Men produce millions of sperms every day. Biologically, they have to deposit them at the best possible place. When there is no outlet, they start building up, with no place to go. Do you know what a pressure cooker is ?

The only way they can get a relief is by an orgasm. If you say no, What is he going to do ?

Answer 8

BEN C,
1. Women are born with all the eggs that they are going to have. It takes month for one egg to become mature.
2. From start to finish it takes about 64 to 72 days to create a new sperm cell
3. Sperm doesn't build up. If it isn't release, the male body will just absorbed it.

Answer 9

Sex is an important ingredient of marriage. Wives saying "no" most of the time is unfair to the husband.

Answer 10

I can only speak for myself, but I get in bad moods if I go too long with out. If my wife said no, or didn't feel like it, I just waited til she need something, then my answer was no. No emotional support when she needed, change your own oil, fix the leak...ect. Like I told her we all do things we don't feel like but have to. I don't like paying 2.50 a gal for gas, I don't like going to work every day, mowing the grass, but these are things that are my job, my responsibility, so she can do something that takes little time out of her day. Its a two way street.