I have a baby with my ex, we broke up when I was pregnant and I found out he cheated on me. He won't admit to it or make any moves to work it out, why do I want this guy back you ask, because he wasn't always this way and I still care so much about him, I want my family back :( I believe people can change if they want to but what can I do to make him realize what he's missing out on???
2007-01-27 15:28:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
By talking to them
2007-01-27 15:32:30 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HAS HE MADE ANY MOVEMENT TOWARD YOU FOR YOU TO KNOW HE WANTS TO COME BACK???
BUT LIKE YOU SAID, HE WONT MAKE ANY MOVES TO WORK IT OUT. SO WHY BOTHERED. HE CHEATED ON YOU YET HE CAN BRING HIM SELF TO TELL YOU THE TRUTH. EVEN IF YOU ARE NOT WITH HIM ANYMORE HE COULD TELL YOU THE TRUTH. BUT HE WONT.
MY OPINION: I WOULD MOVE ON AND LET HIM MISS EVERYTHING. WAS HIS CHOICE AND OF COURSE IS MUCH EASYER FOR HIM TO CHOOSE THE EASY WAY OUT BECAUSE SOME ONE LIKE HIM WILL NEVER BE HAPPY JUST TIE DOWN WITH THE RESPONSABILITY OF HAVING TO SUPPORT A FAMILY. INSTEAD HE WILL CHEAT WITH WHOM EVER HE WANTS AND HAVE THE ALL THE FUN WHILE YOU ARE AT HOME RAISING THE CHILD YOU HAD WITH HIM.
OH YEAH AND ABOUT THE FAMILY YOU SO DEARLY WANT, WELL LOOK AROUND YOU, THERE IS YOUR FAMILY...YOUR CHILD IS NOW YOUR FAMILY. AND NOTHING ELSE MATTER, YOU SHOULD CONCENTRATED ON GIVING THIS CHILD THE BEST OF YOU INSTEAD OF HOPPING SOMETHING THAT IT WILL NEVER HAPPEND.
2007-01-27 15:38:41 · answer #2 · answered by ââ¢Â¥*~áƦ~NYSunrise~áƦ~*ââ¢Â¥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want a family? You have one. It consists of you and your child.
You're right, people can change if they want to, but your ex does not want to.
You cannot make him realize what he's missing out on, because in his eyes, he is not missing out on anything. His priorities are not the same as yours.
So stop chasing after a dream that was never anything but that. Focus on building a future for yourself and your child - a future that is based in reality, not make-believe.
2007-01-27 15:34:25 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there isn't a definite answer for any of them since humans have different personalities. Im an aquarius and i wouldnt be mad, i would walk out and never see them again, but another aquarius might not feel the same
2016-03-29 05:50:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋