i have this friend and i have known her since preschool. she is really sinative so i don't want to hirt her feelings but i don't want her to be embarrised someday. i mean u never know what could happen. her body oder is really bad and i can't really stand it. please help me.
2007-01-27 15:21:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Be honest but in a tactful way. Pull her aside and ask her if she's been feeling okay. Tell her that you've noticed she's been sweating more and she kind of smells like sweat. Offer suggestions...new deodorant, perfume, etc. Be supportive and not cruel. She will appreciate the advice.
2007-01-27 15:25:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
_______________, I really need to talk with you about something. I want you to know you are my very best friend and I love you like a sister. I hope you know I would never do anything on purpose to hurt you. You do know that, don't you?
I would really hate it if I thought anyone didn't think the world of you like I do. But, I noticed your deoderant isn't working as well as it should be. If I've noticed it, I'm afraid others will, too. Maybe you should try another brand.
2007-01-27 15:29:14 · answer #2 · answered by S. W 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There really isn't a good way to say it. Next time she stinks just tell her that you don't want to upset her but she needs some deoderant. Chances are she knows she stinks but doesn't think you can smell it. If you tell her about it she will try harder to avoid the problem.
2007-01-27 15:26:52 · answer #3 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her a letter and let her know. She might not know if she is on some kind of medication that affects her that way.
You don't have to sign the letter, like that you won't hurt her feelings. With the letter/package send her soap, shampoo etc.
2007-01-27 15:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by Ms. Angel.. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem with this girl in my physics class, she always comes over to where i sit but her BO is sooooo nasty and no offense but she is from(pakistan, or somewhere near there) but. we aren't friends really but i feel like i can't breath when she comes to our table. i want to someone tell her but i can't build up the guts.. without hurting her feelings. but i try to chew very smelly gum or something. sometimes it works.
2007-01-27 15:26:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending on her age if she gets her period or not and she baths than it means her hormones are outta wack and she would need to go to the doctor for that other wise i would advise talking to her mother about it and explain you dont want other kids to start noticing especially boys.
2007-01-27 15:26:16 · answer #6 · answered by angeleyessly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a gift bag with some shower gels and lotions in it and just tell her that they had a great sale and you got you some too.
2007-01-27 15:31:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont say it in fornt of everyone cus that would be embarrassing but pull her to the side and tell her she has an order!say it nicely!
2007-01-27 15:26:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say i hate going thru puberty jeez its soo annoying u get all pimply and smell bad...u knwo what i mean?? and then shell get the message lol
2007-01-27 16:07:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get her some nice perfume and tell her you got the same one just to smell'good'
2007-01-27 15:50:59 · answer #10 · answered by norms1992 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋