My best freind hs lately been getting mad at me for small things. For example, if I say that I like someone then she gets mad at me and says that I like to many people, or if I make a joke that she thinks isn't funny she gets mad at me for that and then aims the joke back at me. This mostly happens on messenger,but I love to talk to her on it. How can I make it where she doesn't get mad all the time?
2007-01-27 14:32:37 · 11 answers · asked by Luna Lovegood 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have talked to her about it but when I bring it up she gets mad.
2007-01-27 14:37:55 · update #1
hm....... sounds like a mean friend maybe you shouldn't try talking her as much. maybe that will make her talk to you. she will feel like if she needs you if you stop talking. MAYBE I'm not sure
good luck
2007-01-27 14:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by Female 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't think she is your friend anymore. friends don't get mad over stupid things like a bad joke or sharing a secret. she is obviously making you feel bad and she probably knows it too. it may be hard to accept but you should stop being friends with her for a while. i know she is your best friend and it is hard to let go of a friendship that has been that good and you will feel like **** for a while but in the long run you will feel so much better. try and hang out with other friends for a while and develop relationships with other people. i've been through this kind of **** so many times its not even funny but that is the best thing you should do.
2007-01-27 23:15:58 · answer #2 · answered by nycangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has this been going on for a while, or just recently? If it's been a while maybe there is something bugging her. THe best thing to do would be to talkt to her, even if she does get mad. You can't have a good friendship if you guys can't talk about what's bothering you.
Also, if it's just been a recent thing than maybe she's just having some period-induced mood swings?
You really just need to talk to her no matter what..
2007-01-27 22:47:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you can't control how someone else is going to react to what you say or do. all you can do is be yourself. if she cannot accept you for who you are anymore then maybe its time to find a new best friend. one way that you may look at it is that maybe the time for this friendship is over and maybe it's time for another one. or you can just lay out your feeling about what she says to you that bothers you.
2007-01-27 22:41:32 · answer #4 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Umm.... maybe she's just busy on the computer and your'e irritating her. Or maybe because her expressions are different on Messenger and it turns hostile but she really doesnt mean it to sound bad.
2007-01-27 22:41:23 · answer #5 · answered by illlhsm 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I act like that when I dont like a person anymore(no friends) so get the message and stay away from her. you dont have to beg for a friendship EVER. I'll never do something like that to a friend. friends are people you really like and care about otherwise why would you call her your friend? think about it, you can always find a better friend.
2007-01-27 22:45:31 · answer #6 · answered by chikis 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If she's always getting mad at you for small things, tell her. Tell her that you have a problem with it, and ask her to please stop. If she doesn't, you should find a new friend.
2007-01-27 22:36:35 · answer #7 · answered by julia 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow she is jealous of you for some reason. Trust me, this has to do with jealousy. I bet you're way hotter than her and that's why. Leave her alone, stop IM'ing her, and she'll eventually grow up.
2007-01-27 22:38:40 · answer #8 · answered by Kady 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
id stop talking to her for a while, or if ur gonna talk to her, just be blunt and short. i assume u have tried to talk to her about it? if not, try that too
2007-01-27 22:36:54 · answer #9 · answered by annie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to her and see what the problem is.
Good luck
2007-01-27 22:36:28 · answer #10 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋