I mean even when people insult me i just say thats not nice or i just say cool. And I smile and act all nice even to the rudest people. like when people say "f u" i say how was ur day? How can i stop being so nice? or am i even nice?
2007-01-27 14:17:13 · 13 answers · asked by Haley 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i used to be like you
but then i finally had enough
letting it out of your system
makes you less angry and
it feels good haha
next time they make fun of you
or say fu, say something
mean/smart like yeah i know
you wanna f/ck me cus im hot
lol or something like that
ppl will see that and they will stop
and respect u
2007-01-27 14:42:48 · answer #1 · answered by asdfjk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're nice, cause usually i don't take it very well when people say "f u" to me. I don't see why you would want to get rid of that life skill. I think what you have is rare and cool.. but if you insist to stop being so nice, then yell something back at them.. perhaps the same thing they yelled at you or just somethin completely rude.
2007-01-27 14:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by afromatic75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it obviously is bothering you. I would not worry so much about being nice as much as why you feel bad about it. If you feel like you are being taken advantage of then work on that, but just being nice to ******* is OK, cuz they are the miserable ones. People are only mean when they are unhappy. Feel sorry for mean people, there is a reason why they are so angry.
2007-01-27 14:29:02 · answer #3 · answered by crct2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People that treat you so badly need to be evicted from your life. Don't waste precious time on those types.
No you are not a pushover. You are just trying to be nice.
But, really, don't go back for a second time to anyone who talks that badly to you. You gave them a chance. They don't deserve a second one and you certainly don't deserve the pain.
Stay away from people who insult you. You don't need that in your life.
Best wishes to you dear!
2007-01-27 14:24:27 · answer #4 · answered by martinmagini 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you're being too nice. Granted that some people deserve being told where to go and how to get there. Don't be ashamed to let them know. I've been told where to go myself and I turn to them and ask for directions.
2007-01-27 14:25:56 · answer #5 · answered by Brian W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's yourself defesne mechinism, i do it all the time, rudestuff like that dosnt bother you and thats good! your just not into all the petty bs that everyone else gets offended by it you just dont care about it i the same way, you'd be a push over if you never say no to people asking for stuff....
2007-01-27 14:31:00 · answer #6 · answered by Metalup87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! You aren't being nice. It's being dumber than dirt to let people walk all over you. STAND UP TO THEM!
2007-01-27 14:28:39 · answer #7 · answered by gatorsrock2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its good that your above those other jerks trying to ruin peoples lives, you shouldnt feel like you have to change, youve reached a state of mind people long for
2007-01-27 14:27:24 · answer #8 · answered by wesnaw1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i say youre good not retaliating. its not a sign of being a pushover but i think its a sign of maturity. why stoop to their level and give them what they want?
2007-01-27 14:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by Yue 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is g et an tude and they will respect you for standing up 2 dem. but then again i am one of the popular brats
2007-01-27 14:26:33 · answer #10 · answered by Kelli 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋