I know he is out there, I just don't know where and this is the strangest feeling in my life, oh so lonely. Tell him that I love him will you tell him for me? Does anybody think that I know what love is? Do you? Want to tell me what you think it is? Want to tell me what would make him come back to me? Want to tell me what I could do to be the perfect woman? If he doesn't come back to me, is there anyone else that will find me now, and when? Does anyone else ever wonder about things like this?
2007-01-27 14:04:50 · 8 answers · asked by Friend 6 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Love is the strangest thing in the world, it seems like some times space makes the heart grow fonder, when we realize what we had and it is not there for us and we want it back that is love isn't it? But how do we get it back? And if we get it back, but it can never be the way we want it to be then is it worth it? I don't know this thing called love is a funny thing, very strange, I will tell you that. Shake head yes. LOL
2007-02-01 16:02:43 · update #1
I miss him so much and I wouldn't care if the world knew it only I know it can't be that way. I do love him though, this is strange. And then I have to ask myself why?
2007-02-01 16:04:39 · update #2
don't be the perfect woman... I'm telling you, guys just want you to be yourself...
From a guy to a girl.
2007-01-27 14:19:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear. Ok buddy if you're out there, she misses you. Where are you?
Enough about "him", onto more important business: YOU!
Never mind finding him. Find yourself. Don't try to be the "perfect woman" for someone else be the right person for yourself!
Above all, love yourself. If you don't then you can never really love someone else, nor can anyone else really love you. You will be half a person looking for your other half. Learn who you are, what your passions are. Be happy on your own. Then you will be a whole person ready to meet & love another whole. That is true love. Two halves becoming whole isn't love, it's dependency. Yes it can be addictive but it isn't healthy & it won't last.
Good luck.
Remember: learn to love yourself! Build up your self-esteem. Then you will be happy & won't even need a man in your life. & if you do happen to meet one he'll be lucky to have you!
Take care!
2007-01-27 22:16:10 · answer #2 · answered by amp 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my dear, love doesn't insist on clinging - it will let go. Do you love him enough to let him go since he obviously wants to? And why don't you love yourself enough to get on with your life. Loneliness isn't about the presence or absence of someone else - it's about the presence or absence of YOU inside yourself. The "perfect woman" is the one who is complete, whole, happy, fulfilled and at peace with herself, by herself - anyone else thrown into the mix is just icing on the cake. You make your own happiness - not someone else being there or not there.
2007-01-31 14:18:37 · answer #3 · answered by wd 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is love indeed? I was hoping someone would tell me. It is such an overrated word leaving lost one like me really lost. Honestly, i can't give you a good advice on this one, except that i hope you find him and when you do, grab him, tie him up, and nail him down you wouldn't have to be so lost again =). there you go.
2007-02-01 22:13:37 · answer #4 · answered by oscar c 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To me; Love is promoting each others' well-being --
be it mentally, emotionally, spiritually, physically, socially etc etc
Where is he? Let me tell you where he ISN'T...
He is not there promoting anything about you.
He is out there promoting himself...unless you don't mean a real physical male; but a configuration in your minds' eye.
So, tell us............is he real? Is he the love you hope to find?
Fess up!!! ;)
2007-02-04 11:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by missellie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in this life some things were not meant to be.we cannot buy,force,coerce,bargain anyone to love us,with true love.true love comes naturally,willfully,but real love takes time and real love is unconditional,given unconditional by those that truely love us,,in so many many ways,but none of them should bring harm in any way,intentionally so,to the intended.we tend to draw to ourselves who/what we are outwardly/inwardly,,,good,bad,indifferant.think!
2007-01-27 22:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by dicky d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a grip babe... dont fall apart
2007-02-04 01:39:08 · answer #7 · answered by Lost Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
huh??
2007-01-27 22:11:22 · answer #8 · answered by flacocajuncujo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋