sometimes when i go to my grandmas house i dont feel like my mom missed me she just had a baby but i dont think she misses me
2007-01-27 14:03:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
she miss u too, i mean sure when a baby is involve in the picture it just seems that way because the olders know that the baby needs more attention than the other but sometimes they forget that they may not notice that the other child is rather hurt by it.. just try suggesting to your mom that you need to be notice more.. she'll understand, she probably doesn't even notice that your feeling this way.
2007-01-27 14:12:54 · answer #1 · answered by Goddess Eliana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should ask her if she missed you. Tell her that you missed her first and then ask.
Also, my employer's girl went to camp twice this last summer, and I asked her if she called to see how she was. She said no and it was because she didn't want the girl feeling like a child being checked on. (She was only gone for a week at a time though). (My employer is a Pschologist mind you).
I don't know how old you are or how long you stay away, but you should ask anyway.
If your Mom just had a baby, a break from worrying about someone else, or others can be helpful for a her too. If she knows that your in good hands, especially Grandma's, what a relief it must be to her. She misses you I'll bet though.
2007-01-27 22:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by stray cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The baby is taking up alot of your Mums time and is very tiring. I am sure that your Mum misses you when you are not there, if she does not show it it is probably because she is tired. Once the baby settles into a routine your Mum will have more time for you again. In the mean time help her out. Pick up around the house and offer to do little things like fold the laundry, set the dinner table or wash up after dinner. As a mum I can assure you these things will not go unnoticed.
2007-01-27 22:11:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure your mom misses you even though it may not seem like it. Having a new baby can be very stressful. Your mom is probably tired and the baby needs a lot of attention. Ask your mom if you can do something together - just the two of you - when the baby is sleeping.
2007-01-27 22:08:28 · answer #4 · answered by Le'Anna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sure your mother misses you. Why would you think she doesn't? I am a mother and my son goes over night to my mother's (his grandmother's) one night of the weekend to give me a rest since he is only 1 1/2 but I miss him anyway. Don't lose heart she is probley just trying to adjust to having a new baby in the house and is stressed a little. Give her time it will be ok I promise. If it bothers you that much sit down and talk to her about how you are feeling that always helps get things back on track see if you can't help with the baby if she needs that. Good Luck.
2007-01-27 22:11:18 · answer #5 · answered by Toni T 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is because she doen't miss you. With a new baby she is VERY busy. A new baby takes up a lot of a mothers time. If you feel bad you should tell her and maybe she will take some time to do something with just you. That's what I did and still do with my little girl. Maybe you could offer to help with the baby and get invoved in the daily things that go on with the baby. I bet she could use your help and then you get to spend time with your mom as well.Good luck!
2007-01-27 22:10:20 · answer #6 · answered by newfiemomma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Newborns take a tons of work to take care of. It would probably be a great idea if you were to ask her how you can help her in any way. This way, she'll know you care and once the baby is sleeping - then do something special for your mom. She'll really appreciate all the help she can get and love you even more.
2007-01-28 03:35:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she still loves you and she misses you but shes so busy most likely with your other baby sibling feeding it and bathing it and doing every little thing for it that sumtimes her brain just isnt functioning right and as much as she misses you she has no time to even think, she still does, theres no greater love then your moms
2007-01-27 22:51:32 · answer #8 · answered by Brittaney x3's Holden 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course she misses you, sweetie! new babies require a lot of attention, that's all.
I am a mom and I miss each and every one of my kids if they are gone.
2007-01-27 22:07:47 · answer #9 · answered by lifeisagift 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't think like tht
A mother can never forget her baby
May be she is a bit busy with her new born...u will realise it wen u have a baby..
2007-01-27 22:07:05 · answer #10 · answered by ppp 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋