I have had reoccuring dreams that my spouse is cheating on me although i never have caught him,but i am a little suspicious because of his non attention. what do u think ?
2007-01-27 13:53:27 · 12 answers · asked by justagirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
your dream sigifies how you deal with your sense of being wanted; anxiety about not being attractive or lovable; suspicion
2007-01-28 13:00:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
While dreaming your mind is working out your fears and everything else that happens in your life.
Even if you are suspicious, don't let your dreaming about this convince you. Try to talk to your husband more. Maybe you have and he is evading you with 'all is okay' yet you feel no. Non-attention is not really a proof of cheating. Does he spend time away from home? Is late? Makes ups stories...I know all this is still not proof but to me, that would me more reason than a dream.
2007-01-27 14:10:42 · answer #2 · answered by avechm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I havent been married for that long but my wife has always had dreams that I am cheating or havein babys by other girls and she will wake up mad at me and i tell her over and over that I would never cheat on her and she still has the dreams it could be true what your dreaming about but then dont confess with your mouth people always want to no what they cant see and when they find out they wish they hadent so all I can say is to talk it out and I cant say dont think about that because trust me I no its hard but try not to because the more you say it the more likely it will happen I dont want to scare you but just talk to him that is the key to all relationships
2007-01-27 15:24:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I've had dreams like that and then I woke up and yelled at him for cheating in my dreams though.
Dreams are just your brains way of dealing with your daily experiences. You said that you are worried that your husband is cheating this may cause you to dream about it especially if the worry is excessive or ignored during waking hours.
2007-01-27 14:06:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone has dreams about spouse cheating even though they are not. I have, and my husband has about me, and i know i am not cheating, and i have never caught him cheating. So i wouldn't let it bother me unless you found something to be concerned about. Hope u the best.
p.s Sweet dreams
2007-01-27 15:07:34 · answer #5 · answered by cueteclady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never had that type of a dream only the ones with the person I would like to be with.
2007-01-27 14:38:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i haven't but my first wife did. I went fishing one nite and when I got home the next morn she was getting dressed for work and raising hell at me saying she saw me with another woman that night, and yes I was actually fishing and not cheating. After her getting on my rear she realized that it was a dream because in her dream there was snow on the ground but in actuality it was summer here and besides snow doesn't fall to often in Florida.
2007-01-27 14:29:27 · answer #7 · answered by n0s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not dreams but gut feeling and it was true. Usually a gut feeling is always right.
Investigate and find out if u really want to know the fact. Be prepared to take steps once u find out. (if he is cheating-think thru what you want next).
Goodluck
2007-01-27 14:07:42 · answer #8 · answered by Sense 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend who had dreams like that all the time and her boyfriend got tired of it and left her. He wasn't cheating and he didn't like the mistrust. Make sure you know before you say anything.
2007-01-27 14:08:01 · answer #9 · answered by Nina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had dreams and would wake up crying, I would even dream that my MIL was there helping him pack and believe it or not it actually happened. My husband left me right before my 1st child was born, he left for 2 weeks and stayed with his parents then he came back and said that we would work things out. (our problems were his medeling mother and him being a mommas boy) well once my son was 2 months old he called me from work and told me that he was moving out and if i could please leave the house so that he could get him stuff........and his parents helped him move, he had them meet them at the house and of course i was the stupid *** to go to my moms house but I had my baby and a foster child and didn't want them involved in the drama...........we were seperated and divorcing for a yr when we decided to get back together.........i figured i could deal with the mil cause i loved him and my son deserved for me to suck it up.........well we have a reconsiliation baby soon after and when I was 8 mo pregnant with her i found e-mails.......they were to his co-worker and he sent her roses for Valentines day and he bought her gifts and would take her out to lunch and stuff, so the truth was that he left me to pursue something with her and my assumption was correct all along..........but he was stupid that he left me to get with her and she was not interested in a relationship with him, she knew he was interested and strung him along and used it to her advantage........he was her boss and he promoted her to his postion and he moved to another location......what an IDIOT!
2007-01-27 14:07:01 · answer #10 · answered by Jen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely i'm no longer married yet i do have a bf. My bf does be attentive to that i cheat. he's taking meds and he has no intercourse force in any respect! nicely needless to say what led to me to cheat grew to become into loss of intercourse. verbal substitute besides to. i mandatory the attention and the emotional connection with a guy besides to. My guy grew to become into no longer offering me with that. He knew he grew to become into no longer offering me with that to. Now adult adult males on the different hand are going to cheat for various motives. frequently they want interest besides. loss of intercourse is yet another excuse. Bored of intercourse with one man or woman is yet another excuse they cheat they want form!And if the guy is a participant reason all gamers do is cheat! How cheating starts is getting an open verbal substitute with a male or female. Then frequently a emotional connection starts. Then from there frequently it finally ends up in intercourse. So what i advise is to continuously save an open verbal substitute inclusive of your guy. Have intercourse with him some situations each and every week. do no longer forget approximately the bj's to reason nicely....he ought to discover somebody to grant them to him to if u do no longer carry out them wisely or sturdy adequate!save the residing house sparkling and take of the babies or artwork which ever!and don't be to jealous the two reason maximum adult adult males do in comparison to jealous women!And yet another subject maximum adult adult males are going to look at porn in the event that they are asserting they do it or no longer!
2016-09-28 02:06:00 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋