Bullying at school?

Question

I must admit I have been bullying two girls at school. Mainly in the locker room or after class. These girls are lame and have no self confidence, so this is what would happen to them anywhere. So far I am getting away with it, and I am not the only one doing it, but one of them nearly started crying earlier this week, like she was trying to make me feel bad, and said she was going to tell on me. I said well no one is ever going to respect you if you tell. It's not the first time she said that. She is weird but I hope she not does crack and does not do something strange and I am doing them a service because you have to know how to deal with things. Should I just stop bullying them before it gets out of hand?

I am in 10th grade.

Answer 1

Unless you have been bullied yourself, you can't begin to know what that feels like.

Some children have committed suicide as the result of being bullied.

I never will understand how one human being can conflict that much pain (emotionally or physically) onto another, but the fact that you are asking if you should stop bullying these girls tells me that there is some hope for you.

Of course you should stop because it is already out of hand.

Try to put yourself in their place. Picture yourself in a women's prison with women twice your size doing mean things to you everyday. You would probably be crying too.

Please stop bullying these girls, and if you really want to take an extra step and be really brave, apologize to them for what you have done. Maybe that will help them get the self confidence you say they don't have.

Answer 2

First off, I'd like to say how amazing your daughter is. Not many kids, especially her age, would play with someone who gets teased a lot. Kids think that's it's wrong if you befriend someone who is different or is bullied a lot. You should be very proud of her. I'm not really that old, In fact, I'm in high-school. I've been bullied every year since kindergarten, and I've had to move to FOUR different schools because of the severity of the teasing. I've not only been verbally teased, but I've also been punched, kicked, slammed into lockers, and hit with objects in school. Teachers don't do much about it anymore although EVERY school you can go to nowadays is a "big anti-bully school". That's bullshit, because I've actually been punched in the face in front of a teacher and they've done nothing about it. Instead of having all those "no drugs" talk, we should have "no bullying" talks in school. Also, parents need to explain how and bullying is to their children. This could save someone.

Answer 3

Hi lori,

Answer this: if you were the one being bullyied right, how would you feel?

Helpless, misunderstood, alone, sad and so on......

It's the same way you made them feel. l@@k I was bullyied in school a lot, I never told my parents, but instead my grades kept falling as I was scared to go and get punched by the chubby guy who bullyied me. I started becomeing a loner and eventually dropped-out. "a true story"

even though all of this is over now, but I hated those memories.
Remember that the ones we consider weird or lame, are not. They are simply different, so don't pick on someone weaker than you, it feels horrible believe me and besides, they might tell someone and this could go out of hand.

Oh and one last thing, if you truly find them weird and lame just don't mind them, let them be who they are and you be who you want to be.

I hope this helps, but don't forget "don't do anything that you don't want done to you.

Thanks and God bless

Answer 4

It is curious that you tell the person you are bullying that no one will respect her if she tells on your behaviour.Do you even know what RESPECT is? How can you have any respect for your behaviour or even think that others respect you.You try to validate your bad behaviour by saying others would bully these girls anyway. well it isn't anyone else doing it ,it is you and you alone.It is already out of hand and your behaviour is unacceptable.Bullies are viewed as cowards .It's about time you grow up and do the right thing.Most schools have zero tolerance for bulllying.It's your future, you can make good choices if you want to.

Answer 5

I think as a 10th grader that you need to grow up. Do something more productive with your time. The only reason people are bullies is to make themselves feel better. You must have some real emotional problems to be bullying others.

Answer 6

I just want you to know that you can ONLY get away with that in High School. If you were to act like that out in the real world. You would get yours from a nice older woman who will put you in your place....BTW is BELOW most of us older people.

HOW DARE YOU act this way even though you know it's wrong. You said you know it's wrong. What kind of girl are you?

You are a terrible person to act this way and you must stop now or you will regret this. You WILL feel bad later in your life.

Especially when YOUR OWN DAUGHTER has to go through it.
I GUARANTEE IT!!!!!!!!!!!! I am not joking, you have to be a better person or your life will mean nothing in the end.

What if you were to die tomorrow? And you were remembered for being a little *****? What if the entire school remembered you for being mean? Are you thinking about these things?

Karma will get you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

That is mean. I was bullied when I was younger & it had a negative effect on me. Do you know what your doing to those poor girls? Your messing with their confidence and self-esteem. How would you like to be bullied? Grow up & stop acting childish. I suggest you get some help. Now you look like an idiot to everyone reading this question.

Answer 8

Remember the Columbine Killers, they were always bullied and outcasts. I think if a few people would accepted them and tried to make friends that would never happened. I think it start with you, try being nice to them. They might be as lame or weird as you think. I went to my 20 year High School Reunion, is funny how things reverse themselves. The lame ones turn out to be the HOT ONES!!!

Answer 9

Yes you should stop bullying at school. If you can't stop just don't talk to anyone. This is my solution. I mean it just don't talk don't look at them don't bully them. Or anything. If you do this you might get some self confidence yourself. Tell that girl you are so sorry to her. and you didn't mean it. you just wanted to be cool because all the other people were doing it. so stop

Answer 10

what the hell is wrong with you? maybe someone should pick on you for a change - it will happen too.

the girl is crying because she is being bullied - you don't understand that? you don't have a conscience? what's wrong with you, sounds like your the one with no self confidence, otherwise why pick on these people? do you wonder why they are the way they are - it's because of morons like you.

repspect is irrelvant. revenge is much more important. i'm sure you'll like being suspended, grounded, etc. or maybe punched in the nose.

the more you attack, the more it builds, until one day - WHAM, your dead, because she has a gun. it's the in thing, your the first target. if she keeps it bottled up, it will happen.

and yes, you should stop bullying - it will get you in the end one way or the other. right now your in school. 2 years - you should be old enough for police action - and that's where your new life begins.