begining of january, i tried to loose my virginity. my boyfriend had a condom on. he tried to "put it in" but it hurt me so we stopped doing it. I read couple of "signs of pregnancy" and my face has been looking pale lately, getting a pooch in my stomach, gassy, gooey stuff comes out, i get mild dizzyness once a while. am i getting my period? or am i pregnant? i'm confused because alot of these "pregnancy signs" are similar to the signs you get when your about to have your period.
2007-01-27 13:40:44 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OK FIRST OF ALL, to all of you who wrote "how old are you to be having sex, etccc" don't even think about saying something stupid like that. i dont wanna sound mean, only saying the truth. it doesn't make me "immature" and "young" just cuz i thought of having sex. if you have a child, why don't you lecture them and make sure your daughter isn't going around having sex behind your back, or your son getting girls pregnant OK?! i'm only here to ask and get a simple answer. basically what im saying is, make sure your hands are clean before pointing fingers.
2007-01-27 13:57:17 · update #1
If you have doubts take a home pregnancy test or get blood drawn at doctor's office
2007-01-27 13:45:20 · answer #1 · answered by Ami 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you are worrying so much that you are getting an upset stomach. If he could not get in then you cannot be pregnant, period. Plus, you are too young to give up something that you can never get back. If you had a single gold coin, would you throw it in a lake "just to get it over with" or "just to see how it feels"? No, you would guard it until you knew the exact value of it and pass it on to the most deserving partner.
Being young doesn't mean you need to rush at these things. Take the time to be the best person you can be before you take a chance of complicating your life with children.
Do some research, there are other things to do with a b/f besides straight sex. Look for things to do that will not ruin your future.
2007-01-27 21:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by newsgirlinos2 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Go to the drugstore and get a pregnancy test. Hopefully it's negative and if it is, wait for your period. If that comes, all is well and always, always, always use protecion.
Once I thought I might be pregnant (very very stupid not using anything) and I made myself late with my period by at least 5 days, resulting in like a 35 day cycle!!! Your worry can affect the results. So march yourself to the drugstore and get the pregnancy test done.
2007-01-27 22:05:23 · answer #3 · answered by mickeymouse 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well from what I read here you most likely are not pregnant but if I were you I would remember this scare and I would wait for a long, long time before I would try it again. You need to be aware of the risks you are taking. I could be wrong about being pregnant but I am not wrong about the risk. These days you can die a horrible death of Aids or you can have a lifetime illness like herpes. Be careful and Good Luck
2007-01-27 21:49:25 · answer #4 · answered by kellyfl59 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Didn't anyone warn you about this?
The only inevitable result of having sex is getting pregnant. Whether you had sex or not, he got close enough for it to happen, he didn't have to ejaculate inside you either, if he touched himself and he then you...there's a liquid a guy secretes when he's excited and it's not ejaculation, it's like a lubricant although in small quantities it's still has enough sperm to get you pregnant.
Condoms are not 100% safe, only abstinence.
Well, I hope you learned your lesson and you should wait (unless you're pregnant) until you are ready to be a mother.
If you don't have a period in two months...you should see your doctor.
2007-01-27 21:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by Querida 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
May be too early to tell, but as you know there are very accurate
pregnancy tests at your local drug store. The simplest is the
strip where you just urinate on the wand and check for a color
change. If its's positive , go see your doctor. Why in the world
do you want to lose your virginity. Save it for the man you marry.
2007-01-27 21:45:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Simple, just invest in a pregnancy test.
They are very acurate and can tell you results in as little as a week after you have had sex. If your bf wore a condom and he never got it in, then there is no way you are pregnant. Test yourself to make sure, if you are still worried
2007-01-27 21:47:08 · answer #7 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You being pregnant is highly unlikely. He was wearing a condom and did not "deliver", but for your own peace of mind, get a home pregnancy test and find out.
Good Luck
2007-01-27 21:51:37 · answer #8 · answered by Roxie 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well did you have sex or what????? If you couldnt get it in, you didnt have sex. The only way you could be pregnant if you didnt have sex is if he ejaculated outside of your vagina. Did that happen. If he didnt ejaculate anywhere that it could have reached your vagina then you are not pregnant. You have to have semen meet the egg to conceive. How old are u? If you are concerned about being pregnant and didnt even have sex, i have to wonder if you are even mature enough to think about sex, much less take part in it. Gees.
2007-01-27 21:46:46 · answer #9 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
from what you wrote, your boyfriend did not penetrate you and even if he did he was wearing a condom. you could not be pregnant if this is the case. you are probably imagining the symptoms because you are worried about it. you are probably going to have your period, many of the symptoms you describe are pre-menstrual, and it really is to early for the symptoms you are having to be from pregnancy.
2007-01-27 21:51:22 · answer #10 · answered by cvgm702 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋