2007-01-27 13:36:57 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Put yourself in his shoes.
What if you were making his money and he yours?
2007-01-27 13:39:53 · answer #1 · answered by ladystardonna 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well lets play pretend that he didnt spend money on you like he does, that he has to budget. Lets say a movie and dinner once a week. Lets place that man in a small economy car to which you notice some food coupons that he has clipped to his sun visor. Now lets take away his cashmere and his rolex and place him with a pair of Levis and a timex watch. And lets pretend last and not least, you knew the difference between the value of a man and not just a dollar and there my dear you will have your answer you seek.
2007-01-27 13:51:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he took a lower paying job, how would you feel? Do you enjoy being around him? Only you truly can answer this. Do some soul searching. When you think of him does it put a smile on your face..... Write down on paper how you feel.. May sound silly but it works for me.. Write down how he makes you feel..etc..
You can't have 2 loves (money and him) eventually one will expose itself to you.. Of course you know, if you are in love with only him because of his money you and him are missing out on a beautiful loving relationship. I'm guessing you already know what love is... so, you should know your answer.. being in doubt, as it seems you are or you wouldn't be asking this question, its obvious isn't it?
Only you truly can answer this. Do some soul searching.
2007-01-27 13:53:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know what is more important to you love or money. If money is then you may never love anyone. The man is what you need to care about and if you get to the place where you can't really love him anymore let him go.
2007-01-27 13:43:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be hard on yourself. Maybe it's not the money you like but he's money-making personality. Really. Test you: imagine that he didn't have any money and were completely broke. Would you still love him? Your probable answer will be yes.
2007-01-27 14:00:51 · answer #5 · answered by Clara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is even a concern of yours, it is obviously an issue. However, if he has lots of money, it means he is very valuable to society, and therefore is a good 'catch'. If you are concerned that you don't know if you really love him, money aside, then simply ask yourself, "If he only made X amount of money, or had only X amount of money, would I still love him?" Hope this helps you.
2007-01-27 13:43:16 · answer #6 · answered by Robby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way... If you and him marry and the money goes away and he is not so wealthy would you still love and want to be with him??? If not then you do not love him for the right reasons... If this is the situation then walk away now.
2007-01-27 13:43:38 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he were to get sick with a life long illness and be came totally broke would you stay with him? If the answer is "Yes" then you are in love. If the answer is "No" then you are in it for the money, and if it is that you will VERY unhappy.
2007-01-27 13:45:28 · answer #8 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you live in a Westernized country? If so, chances are you have been conditioned to "love" a man for his money.
2007-01-27 13:41:03 · answer #9 · answered by gone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If tommorrow you won a million dollars in a lottery so that you would have plenty of money of your own ,would you still want more than anything to be with him ? If you can honestly say yes than you probably love him .If you have doughts than probably not.
2007-01-27 13:48:18 · answer #10 · answered by Patricia B318 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you asking how to know if you are with him for the money already signifies you are a cheaaaaaaaaaaat.
2007-01-27 13:40:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋