this is our 4th month of TTC! why until now, we cannot have one? i did everything i know! why other pregnant women are aborting their baby? while i am longing to have one?!
2007-01-27 13:36:45 · 8 answers · asked by zalvaje_0922 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Keep trying man, if it doesn't work out then consider adopting, those orphanages are a scary place for kids.
2007-01-27 13:39:45 · answer #1 · answered by Just Another Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seriously understand that feeling. Took us 6 months to get pregnant with our 4th after not really having to try before- just said "let's have a baby" and 9 months later. You'll be okay. It's actually very common to try for a year.
2007-01-27 21:40:39 · answer #2 · answered by Trouble's Mama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the statistics say that for a normal healthy couple it is within normal range to try for at least 6 months before getting pregnant. I know it doesn;t make that much sense especially when it seems that teens and crackheads get pregnant the second they even touch a man, but just know that you are normal. After a year of no luck consult a fertility specialist.
2007-01-27 21:47:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try marriage. Maybe the subconscious thought of having a child out-of-wedlock is preventing your swimmers from doing the trick. Also, your girlfriend may be too stressed with the possibility of giving birth to a bastard child she does not ovulate properly. In any case, grab your girlfriend and go to the courthouse and get a marriage license, then to the Justice of the Peace for a marriage certificate. After you are married, you'll find the drive to have a loving family relationship with children who will love and respect you both for the rest of your lives will be most satisfactory. Try it . . . 2/3rds of the pregnant couples get married before they give birth.
2007-01-27 22:25:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep trying..and I ask myself the same question everyday about the people aborting..Its a horrible thing. Expecially like when their are people like you who want a baby so bad. But good luck and God Bless. *For all things there is a season your time will come to be a mom!!
2007-01-27 21:43:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to think about it so hard, if it has only been 4 months then I wouldn't worry about it. It usually takes a healthy young couple 6 months, and older couples about a year. Relax and enjoy it. It will happen just give it time!
2007-01-27 21:53:39 · answer #6 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is have patience.When the time is right it'll happen.
The best things are worth waiting for.Good Luck!!!!
2007-01-27 21:46:20 · answer #7 · answered by ckornet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural. Lay down- I think I love you.
2007-01-27 21:39:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋