When I was a kid I was never bullied. I think it was partly because I ignored them when they tried.
First, no matter how scared you are, don't act scared.
Next, no matter how upset you are, don't act upset.
(Most of a bully's motivation comes from seeing somebody scared or upset.)
Wherever you go at school, make sure there are other people around; bullies are less likely to attack if there are witnesses.
If you are a girl and a boy bully is bothering you, say to him or to somebody else where he can hear you, "Boys only bully girls that they have a crush on. I guess he likes me." Whether he has a crush on you or not, he will want to deny it, and will be more likely to leave you alone.
I would recommend taking a self-defense or martial arts class. These teach you how to avoid fighting.
2007-01-27 13:58:42
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answered by The First Dragon 7
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First of all I was always taught you are what you respond to, if someone says "hey b&^%$" and you turn around, duh, why would you, you are not a female dog. If someone puts a hand on you please defend yourself. I know it may sound old school but if you have an issue with someone tell a teacher, etc that is what they are there for. It doesn't have to be known who made an allegation against the bully, chances are bullies don't bother only one person. they bother ppl to make themselves feel better. And for comic sake learn to talk the dozens, it helps on the school grounds. Good question, even though it hasn't happened u never know
2007-01-27 21:43:53
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answered by uthinkso 3
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you don't really have to fight someone to hurt them. Get you
some pepper spray. If they approach you, simply say I don't
want any trouble from you. I'm not afraid of you, but I don't
think that fighting you is going to solve any problems between
us. If they try to attack you, spray him/her in the face with
the mace, kick them in the crotch or even grab a hold of
their nipples and twist them really hard. I don't think that
they would want a repeat.
2007-01-27 21:42:33
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answered by Anonymous
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Poke 'em right in the eye if they approach you. That'll get their attention real quick... They'll have to fight you with one working eye!!
Seriously, though, if you're concerned about your safety, look in to self defense classes. They're relatively inexpensive, and are designed to help people like you protect yourself against ******* like the Bully. Good luck.
2007-01-27 21:41:27
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answered by restless_nymph 3
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kick there *** but remember just be cause u can beat them up doesn't give u the right to don't go around starting fights but defend ur self when and were necessary
2007-01-27 21:39:48
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answered by jboy91148 2
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You should always stand up and defend yourself!! But if someone was to hit you you will have to take all that fear and hit the person so damn hard that they will think twice about hitting anyone else!!!
2007-01-27 21:44:15
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answered by sexychocolatecity21 4
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