ok so i am crazy about a very good friend (girl) and i talked to her about this: i asked if we had a future together, she said she doesnt feel the same way, then i told her how i felt she was leading me on and she said she never did, now shes really mad at me and wont talk to me :( I cant handle her being mad at me, i dont know what to do, ive said im sorry and i just want to be friends. help
2007-01-27 13:21:51 · 7 answers · asked by dwickleworth 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she told me "i love you, your my favourite"
she mean as a friend, i told her i see "i love you" differently and i tried to explain to her nobody ever tells me they love me so i see it as something else, even at home its more like "your an *******" **** off" your a selfish *****" your just like your dad" shes the only one who shows affection for me, at school its "***" and a punch in the arm, at home i get **** thrown at me, my sister tries to push me down the stairs
2007-01-27 13:30:00 · update #1
You telling her she lead you on is probably what pissed her off. You we're looking for signs she liked you when she was really just treating you like a friend.
2007-01-27 13:34:05 · answer #1 · answered by Stranger in a Strangeland 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same situation, and she still won't talk to me. I told her how I felt, more than a year ago. I never told her that I felt she was leading me on, because I didn't, but I think you may have blown it there. Anyway, I still care about my girl and she still hates me, but if she wants to be stubborn, I just leave her be. I'm sure you feel that you did the right thing by telling her how you felt, and you did do the right thing. If she can't handle the truth than that's her problem. She probably missed out because guys like us are nearly extinct.
2007-01-27 21:32:14 · answer #2 · answered by Jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u may have mistaken her friendship love for the kind of love you are missing in life. try not to let it get you down. write her a note(if she wont talk to you in person) and tell her that there is no hard feelings and that you want to continue being her friend because she makes you feel good about yourself.
if i were you and my family treated me like that i would go the **** off. keep your head up and try to see only the goodness in your life. good luck.
2007-01-27 21:51:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was she really leading you on?
if she was, why would you want to be her friend?
And if she wasnt and you were just being mean, apologize sincerely, and then give her time to get over it
2007-01-27 21:26:22 · answer #4 · answered by independent101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude - the relationship crashed and burned to the ground - Learn to say this four letter word ------- NEXT!
2007-01-27 21:26:43 · answer #5 · answered by rokdude5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about her.
She must not have been much of a friend to act this way.
2007-01-27 21:26:00 · answer #6 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this sucks. I'm riding in the same ship you are. race you to the life-boat.
2007-01-27 21:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by Gabrielle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋