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i know he likes me and i feel beautiful whenever we are together. however sometimes i caught him looking at other girls' butt or boobs, or he would always want to see sexy and beautiful women. i always tend to ask him if i am beautiful or sexy enough for him. well, he would just say yes, more than enough. but i doubt...

2007-01-27 13:19:58 · 18 answers · asked by jeth1900 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

18 answers

I bet most people will respond to your question with, "He's a man, it's only man of him to notice another girl's butt or boobs..." And yada, yada, yada.

You certainly have every right to feel the way you do. Your husband has wandering eyes, and that is wrong on his part. You want to feel like you are the only one he has eyes for.

I think you need to have a heart to heart talk. Explain to him how this makes you feel. He's your husband, you are allowed to discuss these things with him. If he thinks you're paranoid or overreacting, then you need to take specific measures that will put him in his place and show him you mean business.

2007-01-27 13:28:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 2

Wow ! 22 years old & she's already coming out to people like THAT ? Damn !!! Well ... honestly, in this situation, with this chick, I would at least try to let it go. I know it's really hard. But, that's the best thing (especially for now). Besides, her husband's gotta develop a backbone someday. He'll eventually get tired of her attitude & probably end up leaving her anyway. Sorry if that sounds harsh. But, it's true. A person can only take so much. Poor guy's gotta put his foot down. Don't worry about it, though. She's the one with issues. Not you or your husband. Obviously, she has MAJOR control issues. Like I said before, if she keeps that up, she'll end up all alone (some way, some how). That's what happens when someone starts pushing people away. They end up all alone. Karma's funny like that sometimes (especially in cases like this).

2016-05-24 07:17:18 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Undivided attention is not the same as being dead! Men that Look!! For the same reason why a dog wags its tail. Because ut can!! You don't have to read more into it!! As women sometimes we have our self-esteem wrapped into how other sees us!! If you will begin to appericate what you see in the mirrior and find out whats makes you look your best and become more confident in that!! You will keep his eyes on you/!!! Most things that grab our attention is how its presented!! I'm sure your husband things you are sexy and beautiful but that does not mean he's dead and want look at any women!! Lets be honest you have seen some men that made you say DAMN!!

2007-01-27 13:32:32 · answer #3 · answered by sexychocolatecity21 4 · 1 1

Let's see, he married YOU, he has sex with only YOU, he assures you that he finds you sexy and beautiful, I think you already have his "undivided attention". There is nothing wrong with a man looking. I'm sure you look at a hot guy when you see one. Do you have a favorite actor, or other male entertainer? Is one of the reasons you like him is because he is easy on the eyes?

2007-01-27 13:49:37 · answer #4 · answered by littlevivi 5 · 1 0

The only way i know to get your husbands undivided attention is get another man. Men are so jealous but if you find a better reason tell me because I've been trying to get my husbands undivided attention for years im still clueless

2007-01-27 13:33:15 · answer #5 · answered by rasheeta1 2 · 0 0

Dress sexy for him and ask him what he likes you in and how he wants you to dress... Ask him and i am sure he will tell you what he wants. If he keeps looking and lusting then leave and seperate for a while.

2007-01-27 13:28:01 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0 0

Yes, it is called a 2x4. Buy one at the lumber yard & apply between the eyes with force.

2007-01-27 14:21:51 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. Lonnie 2 · 1 1

So what if he LOOKS, who is the person he gets into bed with? Who is the one he has sex with? Looking only proves that he's not dead. Be happy he is looking at women...or would you rather he be checking out another guy's crotch?

2007-01-27 13:52:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

try wearing lingerie in front of him or making romantic meals give him massages, etc. that always helps, and as far as him looking at other women -every man looks at other women it's just normal

2007-01-27 13:26:04 · answer #9 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 0 0

then maybe you should stop asking him if he thinks that you are beautiful. if you want his attention...then stop paying attention to him. stop waiting for him to notice you and stop waiting for him to say something nice to you or do anything nice to you. do something for you that you want to do and stop waitng for him all the time. maybe then he may notice you more because you are not just sitting there waiting for him all the time.

2007-01-27 14:19:11 · answer #10 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0 0

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