i have a 11 year old and all the boys at her school are going crazy.
do u think this might lead to sex?
2007-01-27 13:18:08 · 13 answers · asked by My chesse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Boyfriends??? More then one?? 11 years old?? 11??
What is wrong with you? No 11 year old should have a boyfriend period....what are you raising a hooker or a young lady?
Didn't you have a mom or dad that cared about you? It's easier to let the child run wild but it will get her hurt or killed..do what's right..put your foot down..no boyfriends at all!!!
SHE'S 11...You are supposed to protect her not encourage this type of crap. Protect your child.
She will hate you for it but when she gets older she will understand...at least she will live to get older unless you let this keep happening to her..
2007-01-27 13:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My stepmother would allow NO BOYS in the house 'till I was age 16 and I also had to wait to visit my guy friends until the age of 16. I respect her for putting this upon me while I was so young and dumb, then, I had no idea of what sort of trouble I could be getting into. Your little girl is way out of control, and I think u need to get some counciling if you are coming here to ask us if your little baby girl is okay to be dating any one at the age of 11. That's messed up, she's still learning her P's and Q's, now teach her some morals and allow her to blossom into a beautiful, intelligent and respectable young women. Otherwise girl you are on a slick road to hell. I sure hope this is just a BS post..
2007-01-27 21:45:58 · answer #2 · answered by Ms. Floats_Ur_Boat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG WHAT THE HECK IS WRONG WITH YOUR PARENTS??
11 YRS OLD HAS NO BUSINESS HAVING A BOYFRIEND AND LETS NOT TALK ABOUT HAVING 19 OF THEM.
YOU SHOULD CONCENTRATED IN YOUR STUDIES OR BY THE END OF 18 BIRTHDAY YOU WILL BE WITH 3 KIDS, UNMARRIED AND WITH NO EDUCATION AND LIVING ON WELFARE. IS THIS WHAT YOU WANT??? AND LETS NOT EVEN TALK ABOUT GETTING ANY DISEASES THAT COULD KILL YOU.
DO YOU GET ANY SEX EDUCATION AT SCHOOL?? DOES YOUR MOTHER NOT TALK TO YOU ABOUT THE BIRDS AND THE BEES??
I KNOW THAT GIRLS START HAVING SEX AS EARLY AS 9 YRS OLD, BUT YOU CAN NOT FALL IN THEIR FOOT STEPS. YOU SHOULD THINK WHAT YOU WANT TO BE WHEN YOU GROW UP AND GO FORWARD WITH YOUR DREAMS.
AM SORRY BUT IS REALLY BAD FOR A KID YOUR AGE TO HAVE 19 BOYS AFTER YOU. YOUR MOM HAS NOT TEACH YOU WELL. I HAVE TO BLAME HER AS WELL BECAUSE IF SHE CARE ABOUT YOU, YOU WOULD NOT BE HAVING THIS KIND OF SITUATION.
I HAD 2 GREAT CHILDRENS. AND THEY STARTED HAVING DATES WHEN THEY WERE BOTH 16 YRS OLD. AND EVEN THEN I WAS WORRY BUT THEY GRADUATED HIGH SCHOOL AND THEY WENT TO COLLEGE. BOTH ARE MARRIED WITH THEIR OWN CARRERS AND AM GLAD THAT ALL I DID WAS THE RIGHT THING.
TALK TO YOUR MOTHER, ASK HER TO GIVE YOU ADVISE. SHE KNOWS SHE CAN HELP.
2007-01-27 21:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by ââ¢Â¥*~áƦ~NYSunrise~áƦ~*ââ¢Â¥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really need to answer this?
My daughter won't date until 15 at the earliest. No 11 yr old is mature enough to date one, let alone brag of 19.
My sister started with the wrong crowd, started sex at 13, pregnant at 17. Hasn't matured at 40, three kids, three different dads. Try keeping up with the with child support and visitation/custody rights.
2007-01-27 21:32:51 · answer #4 · answered by n9wff 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex can happen at that age. Why would you let an 11 yr. old have any boyfriends? 11 yr. olds are usually not ready for relationships of that kind. Friends are 1 thing but boyfriends please. What age were you when you started to date? The world is tough enough at that age why would you make it harder for her. Please sit down as a family and discuss why and sex.Have you not heard of the saying babies having babies? I am sure you are a good parent and only want the best for your daughter so please think about talking to her now.
2007-01-27 21:40:10 · answer #5 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes.ur 11 yrs should be thinking of something else rather than boyfriend..i suggest spend more time with her and talk to her as her Friend and not like her mother.. she will open up some with you... but just make sure that the 19 yrs old knows she just 11 and he should keep his hand to himself .... good luck it;s not easy being in ur situation.
2007-01-27 23:00:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I think you should have her stick to friends within her age group say 10-13. You may be asking for trouble letting her hang out with older teens.
2007-01-27 21:24:26 · answer #7 · answered by chemky1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
11 years old girl, are you out of your mind? I can't believe you are asking this question. She is just a kid and you need to do everything possible to protect her from sickos out there. You need to seek professional help.
2007-01-27 23:33:03 · answer #8 · answered by Paul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first try telling her u think she has to many boy friends before something bad happens
then if she dosent listen to u stay out of it u dont want to get in trouble
shes a 19 timer and thats not a good enfluense
2007-01-27 21:33:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
honey - I hate to break it to you but kids are having sex as early as age 9 now. Better sit her down and have the birds and bees talk. AND FAST!
2007-01-27 21:29:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋