what do u need ?
ppl usually say that they need love but i noted that they need attention ( which is true).so tell ur opinion
2007-01-27 13:11:39 · 16 answers · asked by dilemma 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
both
2007-01-27 13:48:17 · answer #1 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say both. Love is more of a feeling and attention is the part that acts out the kind of love you have for the person.
For example, I love my husband. I could go everyday just feeling that way, but he will never know it unless I show that emotion towards him, to show it to him I need to pay attention to him and give him all my attention when he shows it back.
2007-01-27 21:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by Querida 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's true that people need attention and, in fact, will do most anything to get it. But most people would much prefer positive attention which is the variety you get from someone who cares for you.
2007-01-27 21:19:08 · answer #3 · answered by Terri J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To have someone really love you is the best feeling in the world. To have someone pay attention to you is great but only second to true love.
2007-01-27 21:15:34 · answer #4 · answered by bovie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think most peopel would like to have both. But you can get attention with out love.
2007-01-27 21:15:54 · answer #5 · answered by chemky1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is important but if you really love someone you will also give them plenty of attention with that love... Goes hand in hand.
2007-01-27 21:26:13 · answer #6 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody needs love AND attention!
2007-01-27 21:16:28 · answer #7 · answered by reses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people need and want love, but i think we all still want lots of attention.
2007-01-27 21:24:44 · answer #8 · answered by midnightjoker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both...that and I guess in order to feel loved, one needs attention...
2007-01-27 21:19:12 · answer #9 · answered by JustMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BOTH :D...but good attention - give snuggles and backrubs and loving words and deeds...the two are the same
2007-01-27 21:15:39 · answer #10 · answered by think about it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone needs both.
2007-01-27 21:17:40 · answer #11 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋