I just got out of a long relationship with a guy, but for about the whole time I was with him, I was having feelings for another girl that I'm good friends with. Lately it's been happening to me more and more (attraction toward other girls) and I guess now that I think about it, it started years ago. I'm starting to think I'm a lesbian, but I'm kind fo worried. This is all new to me. I feel like I'm so alone. Everyone I watch on TV is straight and people are always saying how unnatural it is. I need some encouraging words. Anyone want to help?
2007-01-27 12:51:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well, Relizing your a homosexual is a ruff time period in ones life. You go through ALOT of emotional change. The worry if your family will still love you. Will your friends still be your friends, etc. For some.. It compleatly ruins there life. For other its a great time. My family excepted me with open arms.
As far as the str8's.... well.... think about it this way.
Who has better partys?
Who knows who they really are?
Who can look at life for what its worth?
There are so many positive things in the gay lifestyle its just a matter of finding where at you fit in.
Go out on the social scene. Meet some new people. ETC.
I think you'll be fine
Good luck
2007-01-27 13:09:03 · answer #1 · answered by digitaldancer22 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it comes down to being with a man and being unhappy or being with a woman and being happy which do you choose? Seems like an easy choice to me. If you do decide that you are gay let me just say that you are not alone. As far as it not being natural, what's not natural is being in a relationship with someone who can't satisfy all your needs. Love whoever you love based on who they are not on gender. Who cares what everyone else thinks. Be happy. Life's way to short to settle for second best.
2007-01-27 21:12:07 · answer #2 · answered by just jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What your going thru is ruff wondering who and what you are. I suggest you go ahead and have a taste if you like go back for more. However make sure who ever you try it with is clean with no ST
Good luck
2007-01-28 09:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to break the news to you, but most of the people you see on TV are NOT straight.
2007-01-27 21:04:49 · answer #4 · answered by castle h 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
it's very normal i'am still new at this. I have alway had feeling for women since forever. But i dated to please my family and i could'nt deny it anymore. Cuz iam very aroused and like women very much
2007-01-28 12:05:18 · answer #5 · answered by sweetashoney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋