im pregnant but im only 15, and my boyfriend dumped me as soon as he found out, and my parents are really stricked about me having boyfriends and i know they will either kick me out or make me have an abortion and i don`t want either to happen.
please, help!
2007-01-27 12:44:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
O.K I know the exact situation you're in trust me. But, I think your parents might be a bit more understanding than you expect. At first naturally their going to be angry but the first thing you've got to decide is if you want the baby. I know they say honesty is the best policy but if you want an abortion then consider telling your parents about it later on in life it would cause less arguments now. If you want the baby then their going to find out when you go into labour so it'd be best to tell them now. Or, you could always make out you didn't know...I'm not saying that's a good idea especially if you're really thin b/c you wouldn't be able to hide the extra weight. If you seriously want the baby then you've got to work out where you're going to get the money to raise it from. Or you could consider foster care or adoption....
2007-01-27 12:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by xmalteyx 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
research what kind of resources are available to you and tell your parents... where I live they have a place called st. martin's manor and it is a home and a school for teen moms and you can apply for either welfare or social assistance and they will give you money every month to help with baby expenses.. also your parents will be angry at first but this is their child and grand child so they will probably be more understanding then you think .. My parents are very strict too I wasn't allowed to have boys over if my parents werent home and if I had boys over and was hanging out in my room my door had to stay open and I got pregnant at 16 my parents were upset and dissappionted but they got over it and our great grandparents they love my son so much they show off pictures all the time they are so proud to be grand parents
2007-01-27 21:34:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to tell your parents and get it over with first of all.
Then you can think about what to do next. If they kick you out you can go to a mother and baby hostel and live there. Also you can get grants and stuff for free childcae so you can continue your education. Good luck whatever happens
2007-01-28 05:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by cigaro19 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why were you doing it at 15 when you are still a baby . i am 26 pregnant with a husband not easy , i pray you parent forgive you.
2007-01-27 21:00:25 · answer #4 · answered by sandraintexs 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
you need to tell your parents. and tell them that your boyfriend had left you
2007-01-27 21:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by bianca b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell yr parents u must, they are there for you,dont be scared dont be alone ,
2007-01-28 01:47:34 · answer #6 · answered by john o 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your parents. you may be surprised. your old enough to have sex like an adult.now its time to actually behave like one.
2007-01-27 23:43:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋