He strung me along for a while all while spreading nasty rumours about me. I can't count the times I cried myself to sleep because of him. We have never even dated. After i heard the things he said about me, i cut him out of my life. I know he's still the same old jerk who has no feelings but would just use and degrade me but I find myself feeling empty for him. what on earth is wrong with me?
2007-01-27 12:27:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
been 3 months since we spoke, had a short term relationship which ended cause i couldn't give him all of me.
2007-01-27 12:34:38 · update #1
Chin up, hun! Work on your self confidence. You deserve better and YOU KNOW IT. Stop short changing yourself and missing out on your life that is OUT THERE by pining after this wimp!
2007-01-27 12:31:35 · answer #1 · answered by BlueSea 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In relation, I've been with someone whom I thought was really the one, I was so genuine, we made plans, going overseas, get married before going, and other things. .
I just didn't know anything to go beyond my belief in him, he sounds so real, so kind, so genuine. I go to his place , meet his dad, as well as his son..
Met him thru matchmaker by the way. He lives not far from me.
I got off the matchmaker, he was still on it. I wonder why.
I have to create another profile to check on him,
When I saw him on, I sent him a smile with that new profile I just created, he was into it, with all his lies.
At the end actually I said it was me, then the arguments start to come . He eventually cancell his profile . But before he cancelled it, I created another one in which he wouldn't suspect it's me.
In other words we broken up, and I finally realised he's just playing my mind.
He's back on the matchmaker with another profile. .
He saw me on the chat room, then he message me not knowing he's messaging the same person..
This time he's on my game. .we message back and forth, plans were made and a place to meet..
yea,, I made him come to a certain place of meeting, in which im there at certain days, (he didn't know that) so he's there waiting while I was laughing, (how dare he played games with me)
Then he sent me messages, where were you, Iwas there earlier than the time, you didn't come. I just ignored him,, and yea,,
WHO DOES HE THINKS HE IS, huh?
Cheer up ,, tomorrow maybe a bright day . .
2007-01-27 21:12:47 · answer #2 · answered by JUSS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young and unsure of your feelings. You might feel that negative attention is better than none at all. Guys can be cruel and uncaring at times, but if you are patient the right one for you will come along. You are feeling exactly how he wants you to feel, so he wins. Just be strong and face the fact, he is not worthy of you and we all know it. You must first love yourself before you can love another.
2007-01-27 20:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by Wendy H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to this:
Bowling Ball by Superchic[k]
Maybe he'll change
Maybe things will get better
Maybe it would be nice
If he wouldn't always put you down
Maybe things will work out
But maybe they'll never
And I think that you've given him
The benefit of the doubt
Chorus:
You need that boy like a bowling ball dropped on your head
Which means not at all
You have too much to give to live to waste your time on him
You need that boy like a bowling ball dropped on your head
Which means not at all
You have too much to give to live to waste your time on him
Maybe he'll change
If you could be better
But maybe it's not your fault
He's checking out the waitress now
But someday you'll change
One day you're stronger
And you will have changed enough
And it's time to get out
Chorus
You have too much to give to live to waste your time on him
Chorus
Wishes by Superchic[k]
The saddest thing is you could be anything that you could want
We could have been everything
But now we’re not
Now it’s not anything at all
The hardest part was getting this close to you
And giving up this dream I built with you
A fairytale that isn’t coming true
You’ve got some growing up to do
CHORUS:
I wish we could have worked it out
I wish I didn’t have these doubts
I wish I didn’t have to wonder just what you are doing now
I wish I didn’t know inside
That it won’t work out for you and I
I wish that I could stop this wishing
And just say my last goodbye
After all the things you put me through
Tell me why I’m still in love with you
And why am I, why am I still waiting for your call
You broke my heart
I’m taking it back from you
I’m taking back the life that I gave to you
Life goes on before and after you
I’ve got some growing up to do…
CHORUS
It’s time I said my last goodbye
Goodbye
Goodbye
It’s time I said my last goodbye…
CHORUS
It’s time I said my last goodbye
Goodbye
Goodbye
It’s time I said my last goodbye
nothing else to say!
2007-01-27 20:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by Laura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are still trying to cling to what you wanted him to be like and not what he actually is.
Work on this issue and move on to someone else.
2007-01-27 20:32:46 · answer #5 · answered by frenchie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are NOT crazy...just....i don't know. I had this feeling before too. Change what is happening to you to make it stop. Do what you can.
2007-01-27 20:34:11 · answer #6 · answered by Martial Arts Freak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to know the difference between your father and your lover believe me it is a commo mistake.even among us males!!!!
2007-01-27 20:38:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about how much better u are then him.
2007-01-27 20:35:09 · answer #8 · answered by skol312000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋