and next june my boss is sending me far away to open a new bussiness, how can i manage not to be depress, suffer because i will only be able to visit my kids once or twice a month, and i love them so much that i have to see them daily, today that my ex wife got the kids on this weekend a8this was the first weekend because we are just getting the divorce these days) i was so depress, now imagine what would it be when i will going to be far away, should i get some pshychriatic help or what shall i do?
2007-01-27 12:25:08 · 10 answers · asked by bestyankeefan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, you should get some help and I also think you should not move away. Look for something closer to your kids. I think that kids need both parents, whenever possible and you shouldn't leave them. It is not the only job in the world.
2007-01-27 12:30:17 · answer #1 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on his track record I'd say you would be really foolish and downright crazy to take him back. Since you are not with him steadily you don't know what he is dabbling with on the side and how his finances are going. Accept his help with the kids (they're his too and he should be an active participant in their lives) and wish him the best in live but make a happy existence for you and the kids away from him. Remember all they went thru when you two were together. Don't go there again. Good luck and God Bless.
2016-05-24 07:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like for your sake and the sake of the kids, you should try getting your wife to go to counseling and delay the divorce if possible so you can work things out with her. Then they could go with you on this new assignment. People sometimes think things will be better after divorce, but often they just end up with the same problems with someone else and added problems due to sharing kids and extra expenses... just a thought.. also antidepression medication can do wonders (regardless of what T. Cruise thinks!).
2007-01-27 12:38:34 · answer #3 · answered by K K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there no way you can change jobs so you will not have to be so far away from your kids? And if you are feeling so depressed maybe you should talk to your doctor. I know life is hard and sometimes it can really get you down, but don't give up. Sometimes God closes a door and opens another.
God bless
2007-01-27 12:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by Gale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you need the help to get through this, then I would do it.
If you do move away,make sure you call them as often as possible. If you can, keep a good relationship with your ex, that helps the kids a lot. Your feelings about her will not play a part with the kids if you don't always fight with her.
Good luck
2007-01-27 12:35:34 · answer #5 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boss controls the quality of your work, not the quality of your family life. Tell him "NO" in reguards to relocating. If you are not just blowing smoke up our @$#%'s you will do this. If work is more important than family then go, and stop trying to scam us with this great father crap! We here at yahoo answers get this question all the time. There is only one choice. The kids!
2007-01-27 12:38:22 · answer #6 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very hard to be father from far away.but you want to try this new job .Do it but remember that the longer your are away the harder it is to see your kids and keep in touch.then you have to understand that she will met someone .and they well call him daddy.and.. why cause they don't have there real dad around.to know better.its very hard divorce is always hard on everyone.best of luck what ever you decide.
2007-01-27 12:42:28 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray my friend pray. Prayer is very powerful. Go talk with a pastor. He will give you Godly counsel & guide you and it is free of charge. Read "Power of a praying Parent" By Stormie Omartian. Very good book. I read it all the time. Praying for your children is one of the most loving things a parent can do.
I pray the best.
God Bless!
2007-01-27 12:45:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family is important, as you know, why not get a job close instead of moving far away?
2007-01-27 12:36:12 · answer #9 · answered by GQ69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Get the help you need...Go get some counseling.
Good~Luck...
2007-01-27 12:36:47 · answer #10 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋