Me and my boyfriend Paul have been together for three years. We do everything together, and we always share everything. We've gotten in so much trouble together and we've conceived a baby. Is it love or is it just something temporary????
2007-01-27 11:52:15 · 15 answers · asked by ♥pauls_baby♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
We didn't use birth control because we wanted a baby, how can it not work when we didn't use it? It was not irresponsible sex. Whatever...
2007-01-27 11:58:55 · update #1
Only you can answer that question. You have to take a real hard look at your relationship. Good luck.
2007-01-27 11:57:18 · answer #1 · answered by Vasilly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's having sex irresponsibly together. Use birth control and wait until marriage before bringing children into the world. They don't deserve such an unstable family situation.
You WANTED to bring a baby into an unstable situation with a man that you don't even know if you love? A "man" who just got out of high school and who has performed on a porn video? (previous question). You don't know if your relationship is temporary (your words) and yet you made that kind of a decision? Poor little child. That "whatever" at the end just cinches it. Nothing I'm going to say will matter to you. You are wasting our time as you will continue making selfish decisions. Carry on.
2007-01-27 19:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are trying to determine if you should get married because you had a baby together and you get along well. Those are both good reasons to stay together but not to get married. It is important not to get married when you are too young or not ready for it.
2007-01-27 20:04:09 · answer #3 · answered by BR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you've been with him for three years and still don't know if it's love, it's clearly not. But since you have a child on the way, that will no doubt change the dynamics of your relationship. You are connected for life now. When you DO fall in love, trust me sweetie, you will know it.
2007-01-27 19:58:23 · answer #4 · answered by Luvly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT DOES YOUR GUT SAY I WOULD SAY TEMP ONLY DUE TO YOU ASKING THIS IF YOU DOUBT IT THEN YOU PROB DON'T WANT TO BE IN THE RELATIONSHIP..I HATE WHEN PEOPLE STAY TOGETHER FOR THE BABY ...KIDS ARE NOT DUMB THEY KNOW IF YOU CUT IT OFF SOO AND IN GOOD FEELINGS THE BABY CAN HAVE A WAY BETTER CHANCE OF NOT HAVING CRAZY FIGHT ALL THE TIME PARENTS
2007-01-27 19:58:43 · answer #5 · answered by m k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your heart for the answer to that question. sounds great to me though. I still believe even love is temporary, whether it be 2yrs or 10yrs. i believe there is more than one person for everyone in their lives. enjoy it while its great and always be honest with each other.
2007-01-27 21:34:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope for the babys sake its love and you are forever together
2007-01-27 19:57:23 · answer #7 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to grow up. You have a baby to think about. Maybe you should have asked yourself if you really love him, before you let yourself get pregnant.
2007-01-27 19:56:44 · answer #8 · answered by mamabear 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you cant say, then it isnt. a baby doesnt mean ur in love, it means that the birth control didnt work
2007-01-27 19:56:16 · answer #9 · answered by dabelizeanmami 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
love
2007-01-27 19:56:36 · answer #10 · answered by riri 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋