I walk in to my aunt's house and set my stuff down on her table. She is sitting on the couch with her two year old son. i go upstairs to use the bathroom. When i come out of the bathroom i see that my crush is asleep in my cousin's bed. I go downstairs and ask my aunt why he is there. She says I dont know what you're talking about he's not here. My crush comes downstairs and sits next to me. He is wrapped in a blanket. He was shivering. His skin was extremely pale. My aunt still sat there watching tv like she didn't even see that he was there. I put my hand on his face and his skin was really cold. I asked him if he was ok and without saying anything he lays down and puts his head in my lap. Then I wake up.
I would really like a detailed explanation of this please. I should tell you that my crush does not know I like him and I have never even talked to him.
2007-01-27 11:39:02 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Wow I have gotten so many good answers it is going to be hard choosing a best one.
To the person who said that he is unpopular, he is one of the most popular guys in the school.
To the person who said he is probably sick right now, I see him every day and he hasn't been sick.
2007-01-27 11:57:58 · update #1
First off, it's flu and cold season, so he's probably sick. Second, you care about him and want to take care of him, so in your dream he comes to you for comfort. Third, he's in your aunt's house, which means you want him to be a part of your inner, everyday intimate circle. Fourth, the whole bathroom thing is just a random activity that everyone does in a house. You could have been washing dishes in the kitchen instead. However, it does reinforce your desire to make him a part of your life. Lastly, because your aunt doesn't know he's there, and doesn't acknowledge him, your attraction to him (or any boy, really) is not important to your family b/c they don't take you seriously. Your parents, siblings, etc., aren't a part of the dream b/c you DO NOT want them to know about your private life, but since you DO want him to be close to you emotionally, your sub-concsious has invovled trusted extended family members in your parents' place.
How's that?
2007-01-27 11:51:55 · answer #1 · answered by Angela M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An unattainable love. My first impression when I read your question was that the crush was someone you know you can never have. You need him to need you, so that you could show him what a good person you are and how perfect you would be for him.
The bathroom in the beginning is a symbol for 'having enough of this crap'... you've put up with alot dealing with him.
Sometimes you feel invisable within your own family, much of what you do and say is never really seen, or understood. Sometimes this leaves you cold. You feel the same way with your crush-invisable, cold, misunderstood.
2007-01-27 12:00:00 · answer #2 · answered by What_Ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Psychic premonitions are a warning, not a definate. I've made the mistake of having a very strong feeling about someone leaving me and then possibly bringing it upon myself by acting differently. Dreams are rarely premonitions, it's just your head running through what's it's thinking about that happened, is happening and may happen. If she thinks her boyfriend is going to leave she must be feeling some guilt she may not even notice. The dream could mean anything. My boyfriend is wonderful to me in real life but for some reason in my dreams he's horrible and demeaning...I've had to learn to ignore it because it just doesn't mean anything. She should calm down, come back to real world and maturely discuss it with her man if she has something to say to him.
2016-05-24 06:55:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To see others sleeping, is often a reflection of yourself and your own unconscious mind. It is indicative of how you may not be alert or informed about a particular situation.
You sense of coldness could reflect your feelings about that person. The dream may also occur as a result of your immediate environment in which you are really feeling cold.
The above is from the site below. If I had to interpret on my own or using some of that, I would say that you are unsure of how this person feels about you and you may see them as unattainable, you are dreaming of them in your aunt's house because it's a place where you feel either comfortable or neutral at. The best thing to do is realize that your crush is a person and has hopes and fears to (even crushes). The worst thing that's going to happen if you tell them is they are not going to be interested. There are several ways to let a person know without putting yourself out entirely.
Good luck :*
2007-01-27 11:48:05 · answer #4 · answered by John P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, as you obviously know, this revolves around a guy you like, someone you probably want to get close to. The fact that he's in a familiar setting, that you recognize in your subconscious, may be part of the fact that you see him daily. When you see that the crush is asleep on your little cousin's bed, it may be a sign of immaturity in him, as he is using an object that would normally be used by a toddler. It could also mean that you want him to be a closer part of your family and see him using familiar settings.
When you ask your aunt if he's there, and she replies that he's not, members of your family might not approve of this boy, or it may have to do with the fact that (as far as I know) your family doesn't know about him. The part where he comes downstairs and is sick might refer to the fact that your subconscious wants him to depend on you, and you want to be a soure of comfort to him, same as the next line states that he lays down in your lap.
I hope this helps you a bit.
2007-01-27 12:13:39 · answer #5 · answered by Melissa M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your aunt does not know what you are talking about b/c you have not been very open about your crush. That is also why she does not see him.
Your crush is cold and pale b/c you have not talked to him or taken the steps to pursue a connection with him. That is also why he does not speak.
This takes place in your aunts house to show that this is an issue that is close to you but not in your immediate life, or the dream would be in your house or a place you are at everyday.
Just a guess.
2007-01-27 11:46:49 · answer #6 · answered by frenchie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are interesting things. Sometimes they can be complete nonsense, and sometimes they can show you your inner feelings and conscience. Also, it kind of depends on what you believe. If you believe that dreams mean something (which I am assuming you do since you asked the question), they most likely act out what what your feelings are. I'm no dream expert, so I can't really give you much detail, but it seems like you really like him to dream about him. It might also means that you want him to be close to you. In your dream he was cold and pale because he wasn't near you, then he sits next to you and puts his head in your lap, possibly to get warmer. That's what I see from it. It doesn't tell you anything about how your crush feels since he doesn't know you like him or anything.
2007-01-27 11:55:39 · answer #7 · answered by Bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like two different issues going on here. One is the desire for your CRUSH. You asked you aunt what is he doing there and she answer that he is not. To me this just means that is something you haven't obtained. Is like saying you whish he was there (maybe her) but your subconcious talking through your aunt affirms that he is not there because no relationship between you and him/her has developed yet.
The second part has nothing to do with your crush. I think your crush is a representation of someone you like or care for. I think that when you dream about your crush being sick and cold it means that somebody you care about is going through some difficulties. Perhaps a sickness in the family or some other issues like divorce, drug addiction etc etc. As in something is not well or is as it should be. Or as you think it should be.
2007-01-27 11:49:09 · answer #8 · answered by mr_gees100_peas 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I have done a lot of research on dreams and the meaning of them. Your dream seems rather strange but not uncommon. The rush of going to the bathroom symbolizes your urgent need for something.
Your aunt not knowing what is going on symbolizes your confusion of the situation.
Your crush sitting next to you symbolizes your need for closeness.
Crush's cold skin and you touching his face symbolizes your cold feet in facing him with your feelings.
I hope that you have found this helpful in determining your dream's meaning.
2007-01-27 11:49:59 · answer #9 · answered by Wendy H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing and don't let the gypsy fortune tellers tell you it does! If those idiots could actually see the future; why don't they constantly win the lottery? Same goes for dream interpretation, it was a way for gypsy's to scam money from folks, then some others became rich by selling the BS books, and now sites!
Willy
2007-01-27 11:42:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋