I'm scared?

Question

ok so its been 3 weeks since i had sex for the first time got my period that night i had sex. But now i feel wierd i cant suck in my stomach anymore or just the way i used to my cusin said im probally bloated. i have taken 2 pregnacy test they Both came out negative THank you Jesus but im still scared im cuzins says im just stressin out and what not but what i do want to know is. After you lose you virginity whats goes on in your stomach . Im havin gas and when i say gas i mean gas im very scared i dont know what to do. what are some signs of early pregnacy..Lord help me im to young to be a mom i cant even tell my mom talk less about tellin my brothers. i have know why to get to a clinic the only thing i can do is take another pregnacy test and wait till my next period. can someone pls help me is it that im just stressin myself out or what. This is to much to handle i dont want anything to do with sex nor childern.i would really find it helpfull if somebody would help me.

Answer 1

I do not believe you are pregnant. You are just stressing out and it is doing crazy things to your body. Glad you figured out you didn't want kids or want a baby right now. You should do things to make sure that doesn't happen if you have sex again. There are many types of birth control out on the market these days, so you can get the help you need for that. Most health departments aide in that kind of stuff.

Don't get yourself worked up like this again. Take action. Be responsible for those actions.

Answer 2

If you think this is too much to handle, consider getting yourself birth control pills, telling your mother that you are taking them and committing yourself to protected sex with a condom (the condom is to protect yourself from sexually-transmitted diseases). You have to do both (get an IUD from your doctor if you don't want pills for some reason).
You have a huge opportunity right now to take responsiblity for your future - you WILL NOT get pregnant if you use reliable contraception and you WILL NOT get even genital herpes if you make sure the guy uses a condom. Do you really always want to be gambling? You don't know what stress is until the next time this happens, it turns out you really are pregnant.
You should see a doctor and tell him your concerns anyway. He'll definitely be able to tell you about how your body changes after you lose your virginity - not really that much and gas has nothing to do with it!
Pregnancy has nothing to do with gas either. But pregnancy puts your body on a roller coaster of changes that you are too young for. Not to mention, it produces a baby.

Answer 3

If you didn't want anything to do with sex or children, you wouldn't have had it because you were so young. When people (or teens) decide to have sex, they dont really think about that tiny possibliliy of getting pregnant. I don't think you are this time, but if you don't want to become pregnant, dont have sex anymore. At least not until marrige.

Answer 4

i think you are just stressing out....you need to get on birth control...you can do it for free and without your parents knowing...but i think you should just not have sex anymore....if you aren't ready to be a mom then you shouldn't do the things that will make you a mom

Answer 5

You can't be pregeant if you got your period. You shouldn't be having sex though because you don't seem like you can handle the outcome of it.

Answer 6

Lord help you you're too young to have sex. Obviously.

Answer 7

y u have sex before ur period? Thats probably why u r so stressed....

Answer 8

if u get ur period u can not be pregnant ur prabably just stressing

Answer 9

you cant because that night you got your period
-soccer kisses♥

Answer 10

your not preg, just stop stressing!