years ago I hurt people which I regret, now I feel inner calm.
is it time to start my life again?
2007-01-27 11:31:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
You feel regret therefore you realise that what you have done before is wrong.
You say you now feel inner calm so you must recognise a difference from how you felt in the past.
Take one day at a time and if you feel that the thoughts and feelings of the past are returning seek help before things get out of hand.
I wish you well.
2007-01-27 11:42:41 · answer #1 · answered by angie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you have to find the problem of why you hurt people and once this has been deeply looked at only then can you start another life, you have stated years ago that you had a deep hate against certain people of someone hurting you, but belive me what i say sort it now and dont be afraid of searching the inner you.
2007-01-31 01:59:53 · answer #2 · answered by SAMANTHA H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have changed then your life is a different life and you have started over again. Make sure you have addressed your anger issues so that when your calm is broken you don't loose your temper and your control. If you can't control your temper you are a danger to others and this must be addressed.
2007-01-27 11:43:01 · answer #3 · answered by harvestmoon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, most definitely.
Have you made amends to those people you hurt? It may not be a possibility, but its a good way to show you are regretful about the past.
Best of luck to you!
2007-01-27 11:39:31 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa the Pooh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not, the mistakes you make shouldn't prevent you from living your life.mistakes are made by everyone as long as you learn from them or you feel sorry for what you did you should worry life your live you only get it once what happened in the pass should stay in the pass.
2007-01-27 12:21:58 · answer #5 · answered by japi k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sounds like it's time for a clean slate. Learn from the past but don't live in it.
2007-01-27 11:58:48 · answer #6 · answered by psychstudent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would procede carefully, but it sounds great that you have the inner calm. Good luck!
2007-01-27 11:35:05 · answer #7 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like compassion setting in good oh keep it up not be long before you start giving something back happens to most people sooner or later
2007-01-30 04:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by garry b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you felt inner calm while you were hurting people
i`m not being cruel but i don`t think people here are qualified to answer your question
2007-01-27 12:21:38 · answer #9 · answered by keny 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes i would say you could the fact that you have admitted the fact that you hurt people and that you regret it says a lot so good luck hope it all works out for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-30 05:36:05 · answer #10 · answered by hayley d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋