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My friends all say I am whipped b/c I went to my g/f's conference meet and when she sprained her ankle I carried her to the trainer (not hard, she weighs like 100lbs max.) and then helped her walk to the podium to get her 2nd place medal
I was a player until I met her.
Does this all make me whipped?? Or just sincere??

2007-01-27 11:09:25 · 34 answers · asked by Aric 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

My friends say that b/c she is a state champion gymnast I should be using her for sex, but b/c I don't use her they call me whipped. Am I??
I have had sex with her but that is not why I am with her. What's wrong with not having sex the first night and leaving her??

2007-01-27 11:09:32 · update #1

34 answers

No you're not whipped you are a fine young man not to give into the mentality of your peers. If you were a player b4 you met her and stopped when you did then maybe you found the one you're meant to be with. That was very sweet of you to carry her after she hurt herself and to help her get her award. Just ignore the idiots that tell you you're whipped...they're just jealous of what you have.

2007-01-27 11:35:04 · answer #1 · answered by Andrea H 4 · 0 0

I don't think you are asking if you are whipped. I think you are asking how to deal with your friends. After all, what they are saying sounds like criticism of you. That's gotta hurt.
I think you know they are jealous of your relationship with your girlfriend. But if you call attention to this, they will get defensive and you are afraid they might dump you or find some other thing to criticise. You're right!
So a better way to address this problem is to think of a way to deal with them. If you seek out some different friends and keep these troublesome critical friends, you can have the experience of having a few true friends stick with you - some will want to drop out of contact with you because your not taking their crap anymore.
But you'll be better off if this happens and you will still be able to keep your relationship with your girlfriend (sounds like a good relationship). Just don't actively alienate these friends - let them go their way naturally; some will still be good friends to you, some won't.

2007-01-31 01:35:08 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0 0

I would say you are a nice, honerable, caring person, not whipped. Your friends sound like insensitve, jerks that are only using girls for one thing. I think it is sweet that you helped your girlfriend when she was hurt, much better than laying and leaving like your friends. Don't listen to them, just keep on being yourself, your parents should be proud of the sincere, honerable and caring son they have raised and your girlfriend is lucky to have you.

2007-01-27 11:15:18 · answer #3 · answered by hargonagain 4 · 0 0

Awwwww! That is so sweet. Your GF is lucky to have you. No, don't listen to your friends. You aren't whipped. Besides, once ur a certain age, you don't want people to look back and view you as a player. I think you're being sincere.

2007-01-27 14:32:39 · answer #4 · answered by <Me> 3 · 0 0

You're not whipped; you're a great guy. If she's smart she'll hang on to you. I'd say you have 2 problems though: 1.your choice of friends; and 2.the fact that you listen to them.

2007-01-27 11:28:06 · answer #5 · answered by Amalthea 6 · 0 0

I don't think your whipped. Your kinda in between. It is good that you are not using her but your very caring. Your friends act like they are whipped. Your friends are just being retards. Jealous friends. Your being a nice and caring person to her.

~ Kristin ♥

2007-01-27 11:13:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No you're not whipped, you are just being a great boyfriend. Your girlfriend is lucky to have a caring guy like you.

2007-01-27 13:04:42 · answer #7 · answered by sarah 3 · 0 0

guys will always say this until probably your 25 doesn't matter which girl or what you do its sumthing guys say when they are jealous of her or maybe the time your spending with her instead of them or maybe its juat a reason to rag on you get used to it and don't give in to them or your girl whoever it maybe at the time will end up getting pissed and leaving you if you believe them and then you won't have anysex lol
they'll say that if you do n e thing for her thats the way boys r

2007-01-27 12:47:45 · answer #8 · answered by momma 4 · 0 0

The problem is not you it is your small minded friends. NO you are not whipped. It sounds to me like you need a better class of friends.

2007-01-27 11:14:51 · answer #9 · answered by anita_reel 3 · 0 0

I would say you are not whipped. Your friends are jealous because you have a girl and they want you to spend more time with them and not look like you are so much of a pussy.

2007-01-27 11:30:25 · answer #10 · answered by MyOpinionMatters 4 · 0 0

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