we have been together 7 yrs, have broken up before.... but that was a good number of yrs ago when we were younger and immature.... but the past month we have been arguing a lot.. and out of impulse/anger i text him "i want to break up"... we didnt speak for a couple days after, but i called him back... explaining that i just need space and i don't want to break up but he seemed adamant about breaking up. he keeps telling me to move on, but how could he have just turned his feelings off for me from one day to the next? just the month before, he told me he wanted to get married..... does he need space? and will come back... or is this something i should let go of?
2007-01-27 11:04:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Horoscopes
He is done with you. He has been distancing himself from the relationship since the first time you separated. Now that you have told him you want to break up, he has moved on.
2007-01-27 11:07:22 · answer #1 · answered by Sparkles 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Pisces at The End of An Affair Some Pisces tend to drift into another relationship almost without noticing, yet are surprised when they are accused of unfaithfulness. The self-doubt which haunts many Pisces can only be dispelled by repeated reassurance that they are lovable. Consequently, Pisces may sometimes just leave a relationship for no clear reason and with no regrets. It is not that the Pisces does not love the abandoned partner anymore. On the contrary, Pisces will often show much sympathetic understanding and will try to retain a friendly relationship with the one he or she has left. The worst possible event for a Pisces is to be rejected by the one who loved them. A partner who wants to end a relationship with a typical Pisces will find this a very difficult thing to do. Pisces will cling, convinced that if they reform in some way, everything will be all right again. The ex-partner of a Pisces may have to go to extremes to extricate himself or herself from the emotional mess that a hurt Pisces can produce. Love & Blessings Milly
2016-03-15 00:59:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pisces at The End of An Affair
Some Pisces tend to drift into another relationship almost without noticing, yet are surprised when they are accused of unfaithfulness. The self-doubt which haunts many Pisces can only be dispelled by repeated reassurance that they are lovable.
Consequently, Pisces may sometimes just leave a relationship for no clear reason and with no regrets. It is not that the Pisces does not love the abandoned partner anymore. On the contrary, Pisces will often show much sympathetic understanding and will try to retain a friendly relationship with the one he or she has left.
The worst possible event for a Pisces is to be rejected by the one who loved them. A partner who wants to end a relationship with a typical Pisces will find this a very difficult thing to do. Pisces will cling, convinced that if they reform in some way, everything will be all right again. The ex-partner of a Pisces may have to go to extremes to extricate himself or herself from the emotional mess that a hurt Pisces can produce.
Love & Blessings
Milly
2007-01-27 11:18:46 · answer #3 · answered by milly_1963 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
As a pisces we don't like people playing with our hearts. So trust me he has taken you very seriously about your break up. When we are hurt we just want to be left alone. Its NOT hard for a pisces to turn off our feelings for someone don't ask me why because I have done it before to. And I agree with RUNWITHK i love the virgos that are in my life,but I get really irritated by the self righteous attitude myself my brother(virgo) has a habit of doing that as well.
2007-01-28 17:54:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's funny because i am a Pisces woman and my husband is a Virgo and we have our up and downs but we love each other very much, Pisces are sensitive people and you should probably give him space when he gets lonely and needs to talk and misses you beyond belief he will call.If he loves you he will call.
2007-01-27 11:11:37 · answer #5 · answered by Mary O 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well Ms. Virgo..... You may not want to hear this from a fellow virgo...male...but everything I have ever seen has told me that FOR me my most compatible sign is cancer..... my mom is pisces and we fight sometimes like cats and dogs ( not physically) mentally all the time.....you being a virgo should know that we are methodical thinkers with most aspects of our sign....we are finecky ... I hope you get back with him however....you may just want to relax and enjoy your free time.....recharge and if he comes back then you will be ready for more mental training.....You are a virgo.....you should know his thought process' especially after 7 years + being a virgo yourself....although from another planet (venus) and Us from Mars.......enjoy your free time! And do what Virgo's do best....think it through all the way and try to get rid of the compulsive thing we are guilty of....we act on impulse regardless of outcome at the time...later......we think it thru and regret the actions we did.....THINK before you act......maybe save some down the road pain...Good Luck and I hope this helps ya!
2007-01-27 11:21:15 · answer #6 · answered by Boogieman 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Virgo, Pisces mean nothing. If you include this in your request you are saying to people that they can use magic to justify and answer to you.
Without magic you may have to face some of the things in your life. I would suggest that if you love him you should both try an visualize each other being happy.
2007-01-27 11:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by Ron H 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That is a good question, It depends on what the fighting has been about. You obviously haven't grown up, especially if you text someone you want to break up with them. He probably does need his space. just take a break....relax and if it is meant to be it will work out.
2007-01-27 11:15:42 · answer #8 · answered by tinydancer 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i would say he needs space. i'm lost about the part where u said the past month you'll have been arguing, but then u said," turned his feelings off for me from one day to the next." he might not be ready for a commiment. let go of him, try to have fun with friends meet somebody else and then you won't feel bad about being apart. i would not try to be friends with him either.
2007-01-27 11:18:58 · answer #9 · answered by Donnie P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but it sounds like he took you seriously when you said you wanted to break up! To him, needing space means get lost dude. He's hurt, and he's trying to protect himself by moving on. To me it sounds like you either need to be with him & marry him, or move on. No in-betweens, at least in his way of thinking. You either love him or you don't, you either want him or you don't.
2007-01-27 11:10:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋