Is it wrong to be sort of young (around 13), and have sex related thought oftenly?
2007-01-27 10:58:32 · 30 answers · asked by jodywanttobe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't think there is any right or wrong just everyone is different...I never had any thoughts like this till my early twenties and that was probably my normal so what your feeling isnt at all wrong just part of your growing up and the big thing is how you act on your feelings and thoughts now that you are having them.
2007-01-31 15:52:49 · answer #1 · answered by sammy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure if it is wrong or not, do you feel it is wrong? if you do talk to a mentor you can trust like someone in a church or a family member. I know I started obsessing over sex and fantasies at a very early age but I was also diagnosed as borderline nymphomaniac at the age of 13. if you are uncomfortable with your feelings find someone you trust and talk it out.
2007-01-27 11:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by Bluesky101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wrong? Wrong? Yes not get the crap out of your head.
As a father I have to say that but its hard for kids today not to think about it because that's all you see on TV, billboards ,computers everywhere you look sex sex sex and now your turning into a woman but your not there yet so give it time .The best I can tell you is if you cant help yourself then please, please use protection and be safe .
2007-02-02 15:31:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong as long as you're not acting on it. Self gratification is fine for one so young. Sex is a beautiful thing, but you have to be ready for it, and at 13, you're just too young. Trust me on this. What you think are important now, won't be in 5 years. Please wait.
2007-02-02 04:29:21 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all..its just natural.we all go thru the same stuff at that age...dnt be scared about it...tok to sum1 u trust.btw dnt enclose personal details like dat with school mates unless you really ,truly trust them...you dont wana hear rumors flying about you fantasizing or anything wud u?...ha...anyway...tok to ur cuzins a lil older than you.make sure they're not blabbers k...you wudnt want ur mum to find out alll this ryt...k then
all the best
2007-01-27 11:04:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. You are only young once. Have fun, play and concentrate on school. There is no need to have the compilation of sex in your life right now.
2007-01-27 11:04:17 · answer #6 · answered by SARAH S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
nope its totally normal to think about these things! in fact, we are all born with a chemical in our brains that makes us have these thoughts. some people intend to persue them and others intend to be perfectly happy not engaging in these acts because it does not interest them. but for now, have fun! let your mind wander! and take you into the best time of your life!
2007-01-27 15:40:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope, thats puberty for you, however, I wouldnt do anything about it until you are older and feel nore ready, but thoughts are totally normal.
2007-01-27 11:01:57 · answer #8 · answered by PleaseNoMoreNumbers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Completly normal. So is masturbation at that age. puberty is difficult and confusing to go through but it helps to talk to a parent about it, or a counsellor at school. I would suggest talk to your school friends though they may be going through all the same things, but early teens can be cruel and start rumors at school. talk to your doctor to he/she may beable to give you some reading materials on it.
2007-02-01 07:06:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no it's not wrong to have these feelings. But be open to your parents and or your doctor about your feelings. i would not act out on your feelings till you have a legimate conversation with the proper adult.
2007-02-03 14:08:21 · answer #10 · answered by Mo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋