2007-01-27 10:19:11 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I also like to add I have horrible attitude towards "striking up a random conversation with a stranger"
cuz I know that will get me nowhere since its not me, I already have tried, and its just plain dumb
2007-01-27 10:48:04 · update #1
Maybe your trying too hard, Just be yourself.
2007-01-27 11:05:25 · answer #1 · answered by ~*~Tessa~*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's the thing. Go where your interests are. Take a class in dancing (ballroom, modern, whatever). Take a class in music or music appreciation. If you are pagan, haul yourself up to the festivals. If you are christian, get up and go to the christian groups events at the church of your choice. Jogging? Cycling? Camping? Hiking? Whatever the thing is that you do, go do it for a charity and you will meet single women who are interested in the same topic.
Get into your own heritage if you don't already have another interest. Use a search engine and find a cultural meeting/dance/music performance from your own background. African? Irish? Scotish? Polish? Pick a spot near your roots and water your leaves in its food and music.
You won't meet a girl in front of your computer.
I got my first kiss under the wing of a Voodoo in an aircraft museum, we were both 27. It happens...go out there where it can happen.
2007-01-27 18:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by Mature Witch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a lot of negativity in your attitude that needs to be changed. You need to get out of yourself and find some interests to pursue, and some interesting people to meet. You need to learn to like yourself, find your good qualities, and strengths. A positive, upbeat attitude goes a long way towards attracting others to you. You don't need to be phony to attract people, or start conversations that you have no interest in pursuing. I think at bottom you are afraid, and you need to get past that, and start learning to enjoy yourself and all the good things that life has to offer. If you do these things I've suggested, you can't help but attract women to you.
2007-01-28 03:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by Chatelaine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off u should just be who u are. And maybe u are looking soo hard u are missing that special someone. I truly believe there is someone out there for everyone. sometimes it just takes patience. so just be patience, and you will find her. but u really didn't say too much about yourself. to help us give some feedback!!!????
2007-01-28 01:01:27 · answer #4 · answered by snetta1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! don't worry you are still young i am sure you can have more girlfriends nowadays think positive and be gentle.Try to mengle to anyone so that you have more friends. You know LOVE starts from friendship!!!!!!!
2007-01-27 18:41:02 · answer #5 · answered by Irma 4 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the right women will come along god has some body picked just for you don't rush its better to wait
2007-01-31 12:08:06 · answer #6 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and make friends meet people..go socialize with other human beings, then maybe you will meet someone
2007-01-27 18:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by ღCCღ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It really depends on what you are saying and doing.
2007-01-27 18:26:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need more self confidence. go after what you want
2007-01-28 00:25:56 · answer #9 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u good looking?
2007-01-27 19:42:05 · answer #10 · answered by KerryAnn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋