does it matter what people think about you?

Answer 1

For one thing does anyone really sit there and think about me I mean if they are there losers and need to get a hobby.

If someone were to actually be a loser and think of me they most definitly are going to have positive and negative things going through there heads.

For instance one may think damn shes fine I would like to pork that butt and then another might be like damn that girls a easy one and then mean while another may think what does she do to look like that. So during all that time of thinking someone is sitten there thinking about them and what is and whats not.

Not one same mind thinks alike and thats what makes us all unique and different.

SO TO ANSWER YOUR QUESTION.....NOPE NOTTA NEVER...What matters is what I think and how I feel damnit.

Answer 2

It shouldn't, but it does. How people see you should not effect you perception of yourself. You should be content with who you are no matter what. ...But what other people think of you does matter in terms of your ability to get and hold a job, and your ability to main friendships and relationships. People won't tolerate you if you are just plain nasty, and so you have to walk a careful line between being you, and pleasing the people around you enough that you can function in society so that your needs are met.

Answer 3

Only the people that I care about and the people that I need to impress but as far as the rest of the people I don't care what they think of me because I am a proud white straight woman who is very, very proud to have gay friends and if anybody doesn't like that then they are all that much poorer for not having as broad of a mind as I do.

Answer 4

If you are confident it shouldn't matter what anyone thinksa me personally I used to try to make everyone happy then I was just like screw this and now I am my crazy self twenty four seven no matter what any one thinks and those girls whispering lesbian or freak behind my back are just jelous because I am having more fun than them. It doesn't matter what people think how are you supposed to have fun if you are worried about what they think. Let your freak flag fly.

Answer 5

To some yes it does, to me no. If they were paying my bills maybe.
You know what, no matter what you want people to think about you, they will think what they want. So honestly, just live your life the way you want to, do not hurt others, and just be happy with yourself. That is my motto.

Remember you or I cannot control the thoughts of others.

Answer 6

The ordinary person on the street? Wherein they're not a voter and it's not affecting my rights, not really. ESPECIALLY if they can keep it to themselves. But among people I know...everyone needs friends. And everyone is therefore going to care to some degree what their friends think of them. If I have a group of friends, in any given setting, I care a lot less what everyone else thinks of me.

(That's what makes it suck about being NEW somewhere; you've got no support, and you care a lot more about what EVERYONE thinks of you)

Answer 7

We're all here and we all have to get along. Everyone goes out into the world to make their way, then we all go home to our private lives. Being hassled when trying to make your way in the world because of your orientation is wrong. Period. That is why to some degree it matters, in my opinion.

Answer 8

That depends on the situation.
Just passing by on the street, I could care less. Little issues like Employment, Rights Legislation, Apartment Applications, and so on, yeah what someone thinks of you can be important.

Answer 9

You should never go on what someone else thinks. Always be yourself and the people that actually care will think the same of you as you think of yourself.

Answer 10

Depends on the individual - in all honesty i don't think it should however it obviously does when some people are shunned when in public for being themselves.

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