My ex & I have been working on trying to get back together. I found out that she has been contacting her ex and she says it is only friendship. When I found this out, I told her it was either me or them and I walked out the door. I have not heard anything from her in three weeks and then she sent me an E- Mail & said that she didn't like being given an ultimatum & reacted like she would to anyone else. She said she didn't know if we could ever work out our difference's, but she still loved me and thought about me every day. I was wondering if I am handling this wrong or what? Is it right for her to be in contact with her ex if I feel threathened by it??
2007-01-27 10:04:00 · 2 answers · asked by J.J. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Talk to her frankly. If you both love each other than she will understand what you are feeling. Ask her if it was a past flame of yours and you were meeting her, what she will feel about it.
2007-01-27 10:18:52 · answer #1 · answered by curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it makes you feel that way, you should follow your instincts and stand by what you said, it's either him or you. If she can't understand why you feel threatened by her spending time with her ex, she's definitely not worth it. Move on, if anything, unless she's willing to compromise with you. It's just not fair for her not to take your feelings into consideration.
2007-01-27 18:20:08 · answer #2 · answered by xoxo_sexy_biatch_xoxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋