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Wel i am 12 a lil young but when i go to my friends hous (i slep over alot in weekend) most of the times at night we start kissing and toching eatch other and we always kiss evry where aswell do you think im bisexual?

2007-01-27 09:42:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

A few ppl keep saying that im a lesbian but i canr be i feel realy atracted to boys tho.

2007-01-27 09:51:32 · update #1

16 answers

People can be many things in a lifetime. In my opinion 12 years old is a little early to say "this is who I am - written in stone" but you may very well be bisexual or lesbian.
Personally I do not think that human sexuality is just 'a', 'b', 'c' or 'd' on a multiple choice question. Some people are clearly straight, bisexual, gay or lesbian - but I don't think that means they are fixed and unchanging. I think that we should get away from labels - If you are bisexual and able to accept that and be comfortable with that in your life - Good for you kiddo.
If you decide to become lesbian or straight later in life thats fine too - and don't worry so much about what others may say on the subject - The fact is it's -your- life and -your- heart.
I think love is too rare and precious a gift to let gender or sexuality labels or society define it's limits.

2007-01-27 11:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by Michael Darnell 7 · 0 0

No. Kids often experiment with their sexuality around puberty, it's nothing to worry about. If you're still kissing and touching women 6 to 8 years from now, then you'll be bisexual. Fooling around with girls is ok, but with the boys, keep your legs closed. Boys make babies, and you don't want that for quite a few more years.

2007-01-27 17:47:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

You need to ask your self if you could see yourself in a relationship with your friend, experimentation is normal but if you have feeling for her you could be bisexual. Relationships whether they are gay lesbian bi or straight have to have some emotional base. They can't be wholly physical and have meaning. If you like her and get gooy fellings in your stomache like when you see a cute boy then you are bi. That is my advice.

2007-01-27 21:02:18 · answer #3 · answered by lockheartpurple 2 · 0 0

Sorry for being cliche but I don't think you are neccessarily bisexual. You may just be curious. A lot of people, especially your age go through a homoerotic phase were you are attracted to the same sex. Not everyone stays in it, and not everyone experiments but it doesn't make you gay to experiment. I think within a few years you'll know for sure.

2007-01-27 17:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

You might be, but it is also natural to experiment at your age. You are probably just figuring out your own sexuality right now. It might turn out that you are bi, or it might not. Don't worry about it too much right now, just experience things as they come and eventually you'll figure it out yourself. No one can really answer this question but you.

2007-01-27 17:53:39 · answer #5 · answered by Technopygmalion 3 · 0 1

mabey you could be but when you are that young you can be unsure about your sexuality?
mabey you should stop and really think about what you are doing think if you really want to do it?
it sounds quite serious for someone so young take some time to have fun by yourself
xx

2007-01-27 17:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

You might be, but then again you might just be experimenting. It is kind of hard to tell... a lot of people experiment at your age and a bit older. You will probably know as you get older.

2007-01-27 17:45:09 · answer #7 · answered by Rat 7 · 2 1

Everyone experiments when they are 12. I don't really it means anything at this point.
Don't worry what other say about you.

2007-01-27 18:00:19 · answer #8 · answered by coutterhill 5 · 0 1

im straight and me and my friends did it but only cause guys were over and it was a dare. but when you kiss do you like it if so your bio.

2007-01-27 22:55:55 · answer #9 · answered by ashley m 1 · 0 0

It is normal to feel affection for people of the same sex. It is not acceptable to express this affection sexually. The Almighty gave us a great gift in love sex and marriage. If you take it apart, you destroy it. Why would you choose to destroy such a beautiful gift? Repent and be forgiven, go and sin no more.

2007-01-27 17:49:27 · answer #10 · answered by hasse_john 7 · 1 4

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