He's engaged to a beautiful girl in his country....they're getting married in a couple months. But he's been seeing my friend and having sex with her....and they were having sex way before he got engaged and still do.
Does he like my friend or his fiancee? and isn't that cheating? Today I texted my friend "Do unto others as you would have others do unto you"....I told her that Karma is a btch! One day she sure will get engaged too...and I wouldn't want that to happen to her.
So, you think he likes my friend?.....because that's what she believes!!
2007-01-27 09:28:01 · 21 answers · asked by Bibi 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sure he likes your friend especially if he's known her this long For your sake of being dragged into this mess when it goes wrong _ Stay out of it. Don't get involved.
2007-01-27 09:36:05 · answer #1 · answered by sirjames 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on if he is from a country that has arranged marriages or not. If so he may not have even met her and because he is in the US and has adapted to the US ways he may be feeling that he doesn't want to be in an arranged marriage and is trying to find love on his own before he gets roped into an arranged marriage.
If he can find someone he loves he can then tell his family the arranged marriage is off and marry your friend. He has probably already discussed it with her but if not there is nothing you can do.
I learned many years ago not to get involved in other peoples relationships, you will always be the looser no matter how it ends up.
2007-01-27 19:11:20 · answer #2 · answered by unknown friend 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know this is morally wrong.
It is pretty evident that all he is looking for is an easy lay, ergo your friend.
If she wants to believe in some delusional BS about this guy, she is in for a huge surprise. He is a player and that kind of behavior, while isn't uncommon, sure is easy to recognise. Doesn't say much for your friend, either, because she should know what the score is.
2007-01-27 17:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by Gnome 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a man-whore. That's not even cool. You should go have a little talk with that guy, cause if he's having sex with your friend then he obviously has some feelings for her, which isn't cool since he's going to get MARRIED! How stupid of that effin btch. You should tell your friend to stay away from him. Tell her it's the smartest thing to do until he realizes how stupid he is.
2007-01-27 17:32:17 · answer #4 · answered by breezzy468 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
if he is doing that to his fiancee he will do the same thing to your friend.... or maybe he is still in love with your friend and getting engaged was a mistake that he made and should fix before its too late... tell your friend to talk to him about it, if he doesn't break off the engagement than he is not a good person.
2007-01-27 17:37:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats obvious.
Boys are crazy.
He might be doing this to show off to his friends.
Maybe he is doing this because he has low esteem.
Most likely he's using your friend, because he wouldn't marry someone he was using.
Or possibly it could be the other way.
He might think the pretty girl he is marrying is like a "trophy" or something glittery to show-off.
Or possibly his fiance is bad in bed.
Either way, this guy is a jerk.
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2007-01-27 17:35:33 · answer #6 · answered by jaguargrrl27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he could like both. Maybe he wants them both and thinks he can get away with it. Yes, he is cheating. Yes he will reap what he sows, it's sitting up for a bad marriage, and your friend isn't helping either. But karma doesn't happen until the next life. He needs to break up the wedding and tell everyone. Your friend needs to stop sleeping with him.
2007-01-27 17:33:54 · answer #7 · answered by yaabro 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He likes her well enough to bang her, but not good enough to want her around for anything else. The other gal is probably a better marriage partner. Accepted by his family, same background. Guys like this do not *uck for love.nor marry for love. What is this to you anyways. Obviously your friend is only in it for the fun and bragging rights.
2007-01-27 17:35:26 · answer #8 · answered by lily 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using your friend for sex and that is all it is to him. Your friend is blind and should not be sleeping around like that just because he may like her. He is marrying the other girl from his country and that is who he loves. She is a F*ck and the girl from his country is wife material which your friend is not in his eyes. She needs to open her eyes and see this for herself.
2007-01-27 17:48:56 · answer #9 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is having his cake and eating to too. He is obviously using your friend. Have you heard the saying "why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free"? Both your friend and the guy are in the wrong. But hopefully your friend comes to her senses and ends it!
2007-01-27 17:40:40 · answer #10 · answered by chemky1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋