2007-01-27 09:25:43 · 3 answers · asked by grace_girl 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
If you were liked in Oklahoma, don't change in anyway-there are cliques in every school in the nation including ones for the real popular and the unpopular because youth feels it has to "belong"-
B eing nice to eveyrone regardeless of race, social status,etc. is the most attractive feature of anyone-if it is genuine and caring,not faked or to "win brownie points"-
One of the most hurtful aspects of school is how the "in" group treats everyone else-and it can affect the latter much of thier lives as feel worthless,not liked,etc. Don't be a party to that.
Articles have been written by people who have regrets later in life for some of the things they did to be liked and accepted with the "in" crowd The Bible says it best, ...love even your enemies, do good to those who hurt you and overall pray for them.
2007-01-27 09:40:41 · answer #1 · answered by marlynembrindle 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be a friend. Don't make yourself something your not or you will be considered wishy washy. Be upright and let the chips fall where they may and your friends will more likely be real friends.
2007-01-27 09:30:33 · answer #2 · answered by beek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. The good friends that you meet, will be true to you because of who you are and not what they want you to be.
Good luck
2007-01-27 09:39:14 · answer #3 · answered by Genevieve 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋