My son was bowling in a match for his high school yesterday, and he beat the kid he was bowling against. The kid has already been banned from two bowling centers for profanity, and he started cussing again yesterday after my son beat him (My son's a freshman, he's a senior). My son went to shake his hand, and he told my son to shut the f*** up. Another woman and our head coach got on to him about MANY instances of profanity throughout, and afterwards, he cussed out one of the people getting on to him about it, and said "The match is over, so get the f*** out". He is technically kicked out of the bowling alley, with the exception of high school matches and practices. Even his own teammates were glad that we kicked his a** (their words, not mine). Should we contact the school/school district, the bowling alley, or the THSBC (the 'head honchos' of the bowling teams in the state) about the problem? I just want a stop to this behavior.
2007-01-27 09:22:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Sports ➔ Other - Sports
Why? It has allready been than all it could be done.......Take it ease, you won't see the fallow again!
Luck!
2007-01-27 09:28:10 · answer #1 · answered by Federico B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the immediate term, the best thing to do with someone like this is ignore them; they thrive on attention. Because the alley permits high school matches, the people to contact are the ones who have some say over the matches - which would be the league administrators and the school(s) involved. Either entity is capable of banning the offender from these events, although I suspect you'd get better response from the bowling league.
2007-01-27 17:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by dukefenton 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey chief don't major in minor things. life is not full of nice people and you know that. If anything it will help your son recognize losers and know not to associate with them. Maybe the kidd got a bad upbringing or gets beat at home by the parents. There is something going on to cause that behavior. guys that have bad sportsmanship should not get a hand shake, forget that, just go on about ur day and know that people are just different. You cant change people but you can change your reaction to the situation. Tell your son to pay no attention to losers like that. it wont be the last time your son runs into people of that nature. let them make their own lives miseirable without dragging others with them! one love chief!
2007-01-30 23:09:38 · answer #3 · answered by gapp2gapp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there idiots in all sports just never go shake his hand again and just play your game, never know why this kid so better drugs,family, mental case what ever it is at least he be gone soon he is a senior. your son wont see the bozo next year or i personally as a parent would tell the clown that its a family sport and that his stupid language is not appreciated and to become a truck driver where that langauge is better suited for. or just tell the bowling alley i know i bowl in bronx ny and they dont allow fools to get away with that.
2007-01-27 17:49:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being a little baby, if you are pissed, do something about it. Is your son a litte wimp? He should've cussed back at him or atleast beaten the hell out of him. Tell your son to grow up, at his age, he's not going to get into that much trouble.
2007-01-27 17:45:22 · answer #5 · answered by wess d Ph.D. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋