2007-01-27 08:59:46 · 9 answers · asked by windy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I know this is hard. I am sorry that you are having a hard time. Your number 1 way to insure that you stay a virgin is NEVER EVER allow yourself to be alone with a guy. I know this seems extreme, but that is what I would recommend.
Also, try to find friends with the same values as you and then hopefully you won't have to defend yourself so often
Good luck.
2007-01-27 09:05:29 · answer #1 · answered by Stormie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congratulations! You will see your "old age". Your a very smart girl and I for one am very proud of you. Both my daughters had the same problem when they entered High School. I suggested that they form the "born again virgins" club. You can get a "pin" and wear it Proudly. Many men are "virgins" , you are not alone. Do not enter into any verbal altercations with anyone on this subject, and you yourself, don't bring it up in conversation. Treat the subject like politics and religion. If there is a time when you find yourself on the "defencive", remember ignorance is never an excuse for acceptance, and leave it at that. Good Question, and I hope I have helped you out.
2007-01-27 09:11:25 · answer #2 · answered by peaches 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to defend yourself either verbally or - heaven help us - physically if you decide to stay a virgin until you get married ?
I don't understand how anyone will know about your private and sexual life unless they are actually in a relationship with you. If you choose to broadcast your decision then you give other people the opportunity to have an opinion, don't do that.
2014-08-26 06:25:50 · answer #3 · answered by liz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
JUST SAY NO!
It's the easiest and best way to say it. If they can't take it for an answer, then they need to look elsewhere.
Watch the movies Charlies Angels 1 and 2 and watch Lucy Lew's part when a guy tries to approach her. It's funny and it works.
2007-01-27 09:05:45 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if people give you a hard time, dont be around them. do you really want to hang out with people like that. your real friends will understand. just say that this way, you wont get an STD, and it will be more romantic then just some cheap hotel room after prom. yours will have more meaning. use it to your advantage. if girls give you a hard time, tell them your the only one whos not a whore. if guys give you a hard time, tease them, tell them your untouched and how tight you are down there, and that they arent worthy or good enough to ever touch it.
2007-01-27 09:08:20 · answer #5 · answered by March Mommie 07 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No need to defend yourself .. it's your choice and your body. If people don't like it they have that right to choose their path in life. And if a guy doesn't respect your wishes .. he's not the guy you want to be with. Stay strong with your decision, I admire you.
Good Luck
2007-01-31 07:32:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Date other guys with the same beliefs as you. It will be hard if your dating a guy who is very experienced in that department. Its hard to stay a virgin while doing things such as oral and anal [although some people say thats sex.]
2007-01-27 09:11:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You don't have sex. Why do you feel the need to put yourself into situations that would require you to have to defend yourself from unwanted sexual advances on a daily basis?
2007-01-27 09:06:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply by not having sex.
If u really wish to have sex,
do it after yr marriage.
Nowaday nobody is honest or reliable or true,
they will leave u once he taste yr body.
Trust me !
A lot of lady died at my hands.
2007-01-27 09:04:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋