I can't find anyone that i have anything in common with, and it's really deppressing, i just wish i could go to another school. All the people at my school are either chavs, geeks or freaks! I dunno what to do...
2007-01-27 08:36:00 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Are there any after school activities you are interested in?
That is a great way to make friends.
2007-01-27 08:40:03 · answer #1 · answered by momof3 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
am sorry that you are not liking your school, why not give people a chance and make the effort to get to know them before dismissing them as chavs, geeks or freaks. In a whole school I find it hard to believe that your the only 'normal' person there. If things are really bad then why not take up a hobby or do an after school activity so that you can meet new people that has similiar interests to you. Moving schools really iant an option that will benefit you in the long run as when your grown up and out working and have a job you will need to learn how to work and communicate with all sorts of people.
2007-01-28 11:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by thedaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there hon.
I went through this with some of my children also. Sometimes there is just no answer for it. My daughter felt this way until she was allowed to graduate a year early. By that time she also had a year of college credit. She just did not fit in with the kids at her high school. As soon as she was in college she was fine.
I am not sure how old you are or how much longer you have to go. You really should talk to your parents about perhaps transfering to another school or what alternatives are available to you. If all you can do is make the best of it then that is what you will have to do.
Perhaps you can find just one or two people that you could tolerate, at least until you gradualte.
If there is a counselor at school or someone that you could talk to maybe that would help. They can not possibly ALL be jerks! Try to find at least one peson you can stand!
Take care honey.
Lady Trinity~
2007-01-27 08:46:23 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Trinity 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure I can help you much, apart from to say that I'm in exactly the same boat... This time last year I wasn't exactly the most popular in my year, but I had a load of friends around me, in the space of six months I had the biggest change 'growing-up wise' and changed so much I now don't have anything in common with any of my old friends.
Choosing a new social group is always hard, and chavs, geeks or freaks is what you'll always be left to choose between. Just go for one of them and try to keep your individuality in the process. It's not that long that you'll be at school, just try to last it out...
Good luck
2007-01-27 08:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by tituseast 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have serious issues with your actual school then it's worth talking to your parents about possibilities of changing schools for a fresh start.
Whether you do this or not, the best advice I have is to focus on who you are, your interests and everything you can do to make the most of school resources for your education. Its a valuable part of your life that is over so quickly and often people realise only with hindsight how we likely squandered school opportunities at the time. Put these concerns first and that should focus your mind on genuine fulfillment - then the social side may well pick up for you.
2007-01-27 09:37:00 · answer #5 · answered by L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 04:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh this can be hard for you.
Well you dont want to be ethier really, but maybe you could find so activities out of school that you like and make friends that way. You know what parents are like they will say give it time to make friends and by then you have finished school so there might not be hope in you moving to another school. Try different things out (activities) and see how you get on with them.
Good luck
2007-01-27 22:01:48 · answer #7 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you told your parents? if so then ask them if you can move schools. if not then your parents will be glad to help you because they wouldn't want you unhappy. if moving school isn't an option then try going along to some after school activities. you will meet lots of new friends maybe even get to like the people you don't now. you might find something in common with them. if you don't want to join the activites at school tr some new ones outside you will make new friends that maybe able to help you with your problems at school. have you tried talking to the teacher? he/ she may also be able to help you. you prob have many people that care about you just talk to them. they will always listen.
2007-01-28 18:24:49 · answer #8 · answered by drama queen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with James; people might perceive you differently from how you hope to come across.
You might be socially awkward but I'm sure you have strengths where popular people are weak. Give it time - you'll fit in and make good friends. It will always be like this so don't even think about changing schools.
Give it time and don't worry - just be yourself.
2007-01-28 23:49:22 · answer #9 · answered by J.Christie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U go to skool 2 LEARN not 2 get girlfriends
Make something USEFUL of your life and u will see that girls will run 2 u.
Or the other way round if u r a girl!
2007-01-28 04:07:51 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋