yea i know someone whos getting bullied and i really dont know what to do...im not relaly friends with either of them but there still in my class. The bully is not someone i would mess with shes big....really big. he/she threatens alot ppl. I would tell but the thing is i dont want he/she finding out that it was me who told the counselor or whom ever about it.
2007-01-27 08:15:14 · 24 answers · asked by Jasmine M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you don't do something...you are what is called an "Enabler."
Basically, you are allowing it to happen. Step up to the plate and tell someone. You will be glad you did.
Good Luck!
2007-01-27 08:18:31 · answer #1 · answered by ttown_69 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
so what you do is use your computer to type up an anonymous note and give some examples of what you have seen this bully do. For example, last tuesday at lunch I saw so and so hit him and she said she would beat him up if he didn't giver her his lunch money or whatever the case may be. put at least 3 to 4 examples down and then put you are not coming forward in person because you are worried she will find out and retaliate against you. Then just drop the letter in the counselors box or slip it under her door when no one is looking. That should get the counselor to start watching this bully more and maybe take action. You don't have to be friends with someone to help them out, you can help people you don't even know and it will still be a good thing for you and that person. Who knows, at some point that bully might start picking on you or one of your friends and if you can stop her now, you might prevent that in the future. Good luck!
2007-01-27 08:21:55 · answer #2 · answered by hargonagain 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should go and tell the counselor about it. don't worry about if they find out it was you or not. if the person starts bullying you around then just go back to the principal or counselor and tell them about it again. eventuall they will get suspended from school. tell your parents about it too and tell the person getting bullied to tell their parents. if the parents call the school, then the person doing the bullying will most likely get into even more trouble. you have to stand up for some people sometimes because they either don't know how to or are afraid to stand up for themselves. you will be doing the right thing by telling and you will feel better that you helped make a difference in someones life and the person that you helped will be too. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-01-27 08:34:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ask to remain anonymous if you do decide to report the bullying. The best advice is to say something to a teacher or principal before it escaltes and something terrible happens. At best, the bully could be pulled out of the school and you would not have to be afraid anymore. If you really want that then you have to express deep concern for yours and other students well-being. Bullies should be punished, not tolerated! There is no excuse to be pushed around by someone else! Please tell someone right away!
2007-01-27 08:22:19 · answer #4 · answered by *~*BUNNY*~* 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the school principal or assistant principal's phone number. Call them from somewhere besides your home phone. Tell them you want to stay anonymous because you do not want to be identified in any way. Then tell them what you have seen and that you just want them to be aware of it happening so that if anything critical happens in the future that they can't say they weren't aware.
Please do it. Bullying is a real problem in every school and I think the teachers turn a blind eye to it.
2007-01-27 08:39:16 · answer #5 · answered by TPhi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bullies want control over u and just wants to see you cry. if the counselor tells, then he's not a good counselor since it shouldnt be told to any1. tell the person that gets bullied to stand up for him. and u be on his/her side. the bully might be doing what she's doing because maybe she's hiding something painful, like losing her parents or something. hope it goes well for u guys
2007-01-27 08:36:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let an adult know that this person is being bullied because it is not right and it is wicked.
If it was you, wouldn't you want someone to go out of their way to help you? Let an adult know right away - another teacher, or even the other child's parents. Even if you may not want to come across as a tale bearer - write an anonymous letter to both a teacher and to the other child's parents ASAP.
2007-01-27 08:19:42 · answer #7 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To keep yourself safe talk to the school counselor. They handle these situations everyday believe it or not. Bullying is a big problem these days and sometimes it results in death. The counselor won't say who told her, but will probably alert the teachers and everybody will be paying more attention to her/him.
2007-01-27 13:15:15 · answer #8 · answered by hypnotic_wht_grl_21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if youre scared dont tell but if you want to do the right thing help the person getting bullied
2007-01-27 08:19:33 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. Smiley 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the counselor, the teacher, the principle and tell them you want to remain anonymous as to who is reporting the bully.
2007-01-27 08:24:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. write a letter and leave it on the counselors desk. don't put your name. and if you don't want your writing known, than type it.
say you are concerned because (enter name here) is bullying other students, especially (enter name of victim here) and you don't think bullying is okay and want to know if someone can talk to the class and that person.
if you want to do that and need some help with the letter just email me!
brittanyplayfoot@yahoo.ca
2007-01-27 08:22:25 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋