I'm pregnet with a guy I just met. I'm 18 he's 24. Help please.
2007-01-27 07:59:24 · 17 answers · asked by mydadscopilot 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
first sit down and think about what you want to do.I'd suggest keep it or open adoption.when a girl has an abortion a lot of the time they feel guilty and sometimes it makes it where they can't have kids but I'm not saying that will happen in your case even though i really don't like it.you then need to talk to the father.he may or may not want it.if he doesn't and you do then have it who cares about him.if you don't want it and he does then mabe you should let him have it.if neither of you want it youshould really think about adoption.with open adoption the child has the chance to know you and with a regular adoption then you have the choice of it being all...anonymous i guess would be the word. if you are religious you should pray then again if your not mabe you should anyway. now i don't think i could have but if in anyway i upset you I'm sorry but please think about what I've said.
2007-01-28 09:05:43 · answer #1 · answered by arkariansgirl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If i was you i would tell the babys father that your pregnant and if you think that he wont be a part of you and your babys life then i would talk to my parents. But definitely go see a doctor. Im 8months pregnant and 17 going on 18 and my babys father is 21. Im living with my mother and im dealing with this just fine. There has to be people out there that can help you.
2007-01-27 15:58:10 · answer #2 · answered by tasha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Tell your parents.
2. Get his birthdate and SS number (you're going to need this for child support later). . . .THEN tell him you're pregnant.
3. Visit an ob/gyn for a prenatal checkup.
4. Finish school.
5. Get a job and start saving for baby furniture, clothes, diapers, etc.
6. Set up parenting classes.
7. Find out if you are covered by anyone's insurance.
8. If you're not contact your county's Social Services and get on Medicaid immediately. Ask them about other programs you might qualify for.
9. If you decide NOT to keep the child, contact an adoption agency that will help you find adoptive parents who will pay all your medical costs.
Now that you're in this situation, that's what you have to do. Just be aware. . . you're not alone. There are support groups to help you.
If you keep the child, and don't marry the father you will have to go to court to get child support (and do it immediately). The court will order a DNA test as soon as the baby is born and assign him child support payments for the next 20 or so years. Hard lessons, huh?
2007-01-27 08:20:45 · answer #3 · answered by snddupree 5 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Okay, first what is with the name "sexlover". If that were so, ever hear of condoms? You screwed up and now you will have to live with whatever option you choose. Keep it, adoption, abortion. What ever choice you make will be hard, because of your bad choice, you will now have to live with it AND so will this child!
Whatever your choice, get some morals. You shouldn't be having sex at 18 especially with someone you just met. My motto, don't have sex until you can live with the possible consequence of getting pregnant.
Good luck
2007-01-27 16:05:26 · answer #4 · answered by lovin life 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest going to see a doctor to confirm the pregnancy, start pre natal vitamins... and consider seriously adoption if you aren't able to commit to having a relationship with the babies father....after the baby is born
2007-01-27 08:06:17 · answer #5 · answered by eyebeeablessing2u 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
See a doctor to confirm the pregnancy. Talk to the guy and maybe talk to your mom.
2007-01-27 08:09:29 · answer #6 · answered by Allyson B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, your pretty much old enough for welfare. take care of the baby, and if ur boyfriend ditches u, u can sue him for abandonment or something like that. dont worry its gonna be ok, gl t(''t)
2007-01-27 15:05:37 · answer #7 · answered by burning ice 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Umm. You should tell your parents. And go to the doctors to make sure your body is okay.
2007-01-27 08:04:06 · answer #8 · answered by italianchick0843 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to see a doctor.
2007-01-27 08:03:24 · answer #9 · answered by justpeachee22 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
good for you! you know now what sex is all about.your really easy.just met this guy had sex with him,lucky you don`t get aids/std.well at least you know one thing?your pregant,haha!
2007-01-27 11:38:11 · answer #10 · answered by horseknickers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋