my two best friends like think that i dont like to hang out with them anymore and like they both hate me so much, becuase they are tired of it and like its really hurting me the things there saying to me i cant like stop crying and i feel like i have no one to turn to anymore what do i do? ive always been there for them when they like needed me...and there going together on a school trip to oshawa for two weeks and i know that they'll have a great time without me or talking about me
2007-01-27 07:58:06 · 14 answers · asked by meldi43 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Dosent sound like much in the way of best friends.. But if the complaint is you dont hang out anymore.. whats stopping you from just hanging out more?
and the person above was pretty much right.. Its highly unlikely you are ever gonna see any of the people you went to school with later in life except at school reunions and even then lotssa people skip those more than not most likely)
I know this seems important now.. and it is importan now.. the key word being NOW.. it wont be important later
2007-01-27 08:08:16 · answer #1 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to meet with each one separately and have a serious, heart to heart talk. Ask them why is it that they feel you do not want to spend time with them. And what have you done to offend or hurt their feelings. If forgiveness needs to happen, ask for their forgiveness and apologize for actions that you may have committed that hurt them. Let her/each separately know how much you love and enjoy her friendship and that you are willing to make the relationship work and be healthy. But do it with each girl separately - work things out with each - then all three together.
2007-01-27 08:04:10 · answer #2 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem with my best friend. I felt so sad but then I just ignored it and we didnt speak for 3 months. Over chritmas break she called me and aplogized. We started back talking and never talked about what had happened until a year. I think it made us closer in the long run. Just find new friends
2007-01-27 08:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by Hello!!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There must be some reason they think you don't like hanging with them. You should talk to them and find out why they feel like they do. Is there something you can think of that you may be doing that would cause them to think that? If so, then you have a choice to change that.
2007-01-27 08:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't sound like friends to me. Go make some more friends and leave these two to their own bitter talk. Don't even attempt to talk to them. Just go on with your life. You doing well and making more friends and having a good life is revenge enough.
2007-01-27 08:11:23 · answer #5 · answered by sheepinarowboat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it. If they dont talk about u, they were really never ure friends. Talk to them, and if they still ignore u, then find a new friend, it will be hard but atleast u will have a TRUE friend
2007-01-27 08:09:22 · answer #6 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call these people your best friends,if your crying ,because they make you feel bad ,they're not your friends ,move on .don;t be mean to them .just do difference things ,take you're self out of that mix.stay busy with new thing s
2007-01-27 08:05:17 · answer #7 · answered by colliedogcody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't believe you're not 'smart' enough to know that 'IF' they were really your best friends
then they would 'NOT' hate you!
True friends don't hate each other!
You've got a lot to learn about life and relationships!
If they hate you, then they were 'never your friends to start with!!
Get Real!!
2007-01-27 08:09:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, well in that case; they are not your friends honey. Seriously, just get over it. Don't cry, don't call them, just leave them alone. When they see that you don't really care/ and you don't really need them, they'll start wondering why.
2007-01-27 08:02:18 · answer #9 · answered by Stefi13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find new friends . the ones you have are not your friends anymore/ you don't need them hurting you all the time . they shouldn't be hurting you at all.
ignore them and make new friends.
don't waste your days being hurt and left out.
show them you can find new friends.
2007-01-27 08:04:05 · answer #10 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋