2007-01-27 07:38:47 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
hows about all you high and mighty leave this poor woman/girl alone, you have no idea about her situation
you need to go to the nearest GUM clinic or family planning clinic and they'll point you in the right direction and give you advice and councelling if you want it.
2007-01-27 07:51:20 · answer #1 · answered by dossmanuk 2 · 6⤊ 3⤋
Go to your GP, and they will refer you to a clinic if you're eligible for an NHS abortion, if not they'll give you the number of the clinic but you'll have to arrange and pay for the abortion privately.
Don't listen to all the people who are judging you, God wont judge you so why do they have the right!! Besides, if you came on here in 9 months and had had the baby in the wrong situation there'd be a whole load of other people all be judging you again so you can't win!!
Good luck, I hope things go well for you, you need to do the best thing for you
2007-01-29 21:52:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't in good conscience tell you that, but I do recommend that you take a look at this information before you do something you might regret the rest of your life:
Photos and Video of Abortions, Including 1st Trimester Abortions:
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html
Information on All Aspects of Abortion:
http://Abort73.com
Photos and Facts About Prenatal Development:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm
Abortion Stories:
http://abortiontv.com/Words/truestoriesfrom-mothers.htm
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-G-2-testimony.html
http://www.teenbreaks.com/abortion/girlswhoaborted.cfm
Abortion Risks:
http://afterabortion.info/complic.html
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp
http://www.teenbreaks.com/abortion/complicationsgirls.cfm
Abortion Deaths:
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.lifeissues.org/ru486/deaths.htm
http://www.nrlc.org/Factsheets/FS15_pilldanger.pdf
Free, Confidential Pregnancy Help (including referrals for financial, medical, legal, and housing assistance; free pregnancy tests and ultrasounds; free maternity and baby supplies; pregnancy, parenting, and adoption information; counseling and emotional support):
http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp
http://www.heartbeatinternational.org/worldwide_directory.asp
Support for Pregnant Teens:
http://standupgirl.com/site/index.php
Support for Pregnant College and Career Women:
http://www.nurturingnetwork.org
2007-01-28 13:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how far along you are, where you live, and how you will pay.
Some health insurance pays for it; some doesn't. Depending on where you live, public or state medical coverage often includes abortion.
A good place to start would be Planned Parenthood. Go to plannedparenthood.org to find out if there is a location near you.
Some branches actually do abortions, others will refer you to somewhere else.
Good luck
2007-01-27 07:54:47 · answer #4 · answered by who me? 5 · 4⤊ 2⤋
You should go to your ob/gyn for this. If they do not perform abortions, they will point you to someone who does.
You can also condider adoption - there are many infertile couples out there who really want a baby.
For all the preachers on the board - please leave her alone, this is her choice, you don't know her circumstances, and she is not on here looking to be judged by you.
2007-01-27 08:22:46 · answer #5 · answered by Erika 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Marie Stopes clinics. I've attached the link below. There're details on there of all the clinics in the UK. They don't judge and will talk you through everything.
Think carefully before making any decisions. I hope you come through this crisis happy and comfortable.
And to all those people who have responded with their own judgements, think carefully before you start to preach to others. This girl is having a crisis, and although you may not agree with her way of dealing with it, she deserves support from this community. If you can't provide support and information, don't answer the question.
Good luck honey. xx
2007-01-27 07:49:46 · answer #6 · answered by catwoman6942 3 · 7⤊ 2⤋
Go to a gynaecologist. They will be able to refer you on for an abortion although you will probably be counselled first
2007-01-27 08:06:31 · answer #7 · answered by traceylill 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Go to your docs or to your local family planning centre. They can arrange it if you cant go to your docs for any reason. Think long and hard about it though. They'll make sure you understand the implications, but it can be hard to deal with after its done.
2007-01-27 07:51:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
Go to your doctors as an NHS patient. You could also go to Marie stopes. Google it. They have an on line counselling questionnaire too which anyone can use. If you go to them direct you will have to pay though.
2007-01-27 08:01:12 · answer #9 · answered by itgirl23 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
If one lacks the intelligence to look in a phone book to find the local abortion agency, I'd recommend they get an abortion as soon as possible to keep thier genes out of the pool.
2007-01-27 07:47:39 · answer #10 · answered by dr_tom_cruise_md 3 · 2⤊ 7⤋