2007-01-27 07:29:53 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Get better friends.
2007-01-27 07:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by Havoc68W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you don't like them to call you names behind your back. If they don't stop, find some new friends.
2007-01-27 07:32:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being friends with them. They are obviously not your friends if they are saying anything behind your back, especially calling you names.
2007-01-27 07:33:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, these people are not FRIENDS if they are calling you names behind your back. I would say they are back stabbers and big phonies. Who needs friends like that? Unfortunately, you can't stop morans from being who they are. I would suggest you ask them why they are doing this, and then find yourself some real friends to hang out. Good luck!
2007-01-27 07:35:25 · answer #4 · answered by ceegt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them that you don't like it. Don't be like them and say stuff behind their backs, because that will just make the problem worse. If they don't stop just start hanging around with other people and act like it doesn't bother you. Sooner or later they will realize it doesn't bother you and they will stop. Or you can talk to them and ask why they are doing that. If they don't stop and understand that it hurts you they aren't real friends.
2007-01-27 07:35:16 · answer #5 · answered by italianchick0843 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By switching friends, because anyone who calls you names behind your back is NOT your friend
2007-01-27 07:33:48 · answer #6 · answered by What Will The Spill Kill? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they call you names behind your back then they aren't a true friend
2007-01-27 07:34:11 · answer #7 · answered by osunumberonefan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't stop them. . . yet you can manage the situation.
If you know what the 'name' you were called was try this.
Go up to the persons who used that name behind you back and say something like "Hey, have you seen (enter that name you are being called here), around lately, she was looking for you". Of course, you would be talking about your own self. . . this is just a tatic of getting in their space to let them know..." I know what is being said and knock it off".
By doing this you are taking the 'thunder' away from them and basically letting them know that you are aware of what they are saying and that you are taking the 'power' of your own self and handling your own personal space and how you are related towards.
There is a phrase " Teach people how to treat you. "
I wish you well.
2007-01-27 07:35:09 · answer #8 · answered by onelight 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you can't. if these people are calling you names behind your back they are not really your friends. you need to find some new ones.
2007-01-27 07:33:43 · answer #9 · answered by Pandora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends don't do that.... so it's time to dump then and get new friends. Ignore people that talk behind your back...they are usually like that because they are jealous of you for some reason.
2007-01-27 08:05:52 · answer #10 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If people are calling you names behind your back thats a huge clue that they aren't your friends. You need to look for people who value your friendship and dont abuse you.
2007-01-27 07:58:44 · answer #11 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋