He always plays with my little sister (almost 3) and plays with her like he would a child of ours...he says that he isnt ready but it sure seems like to to me! HELP!
2007-01-27 07:13:19 · 15 answers · asked by ♥Ashley♥ 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Well how old are you guys? And also playing with another persons child does not mean you are ready to have kids, it just means you are good with them. Its one thing to play with someone elses child and a completly other to have one of your own. If he says hes not ready then he is not ready!
2007-01-27 07:21:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think youre going nuts , that you think the reason that youre boyfriend play ing with youre sister and wanna a baby lol. i dont think that means that guys out there wanna a kids right way if they are really 100% aready for to be a father and a kid with some one who has a sibls doesnt mean theyre going be stupid to get their own gf's pregrnated first place . maybe youre tooo young to have a kid any ways because if you end up getting pregrnated age 14 or 17 then youre going risk to stay at home all day and take care of youre baby all yourself . plus most boys doesnt even stay with their girlfriends and help take care their kids . they will break up with the gf's and just leave you all alone with youre child . so i think you should wait til you get older and finished school first then get a job and save $$ if you do going move out and get youre own place after then you and youre boyfriend can dedicate if want a kids of your own later on . plus why, are you asking people out there about that you think youre boyfriend wants a kid , first all you should ask youre self and talk to youre boyfriend if he want any children . and if not then dont push him to have a kid with you then .
2007-01-27 15:35:34 · answer #2 · answered by sk 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all, a sister and your own baby are totally different. If he is not ready, her is not ready. Plus he is only your boyfriend, give it some time.
2007-01-27 15:26:05 · answer #3 · answered by loulou 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Here, amusingly, is this poster's answer to a question about when to get engaged:
"I think its always best to wait until you know for sure that you are truely in love with this person and u can see yourself 80 or 90 yrs old still in love with her as much as u are now. As for the career thing yes its a good idea to wait until u both have a steady career but its not everything it can be your first real test of your relationship because believe me your going to be going threw them my boyfriend and i are!"
It IS always best to wait.
And, particularly in your case, best to do it after further schooling, too.
2007-01-27 15:51:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who calls herself "John's girl biotch" isn't' ready to have a baby herself. As for John ... well you've obviously known him since for at least 2 years or more ... and if he doesn't make you respect yourself more than to have you use that kind of name .... then he's not ready either. BTW ... is John willing to quit smoking? If he isn't then you shouldn't be thinking about having a child with him anyway. I think the fact that you're sitting around feeling "Bored" makes you think that a baby would enhance your life! Well ... having a baby is a commitment for life and as far as I can see ... you haven't even been able to make a commitment with the potential sperm donor! Wait until you're a little more mature ... you waaaaaay to young to be having babies anyway!
2007-01-27 15:33:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Playing with someone else's kid is WAAAYYYY different than being responsible for the total care of your own. He said he's not ready for that responsibility WHAT ON EARTH makes you think that you know what he wants better than HE does??? You trap him into a pregnancy and you WILL regret it...he will resent you or leave you...SO I don't know why you're asking for HELP he already told ya NO!!!!!!
2007-01-27 15:22:07 · answer #6 · answered by Proud Mommy of 6 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, If your sister is almost only three then that makes you how old? If he says he isn't ready then I would take his word for it. The more you pressure him the less he'll be ready so back off.
2007-01-27 15:19:54 · answer #7 · answered by Violet 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend? Well that says enough right there doesn't it. If he's not your husband, and you guys don't own your own home yet, then no he's not ready for a baby. Do you know how expensive a wedding is? Do you know what it takes to buy your own home? Figures these two out first because if you have a baby now there's no way you're getting to do either anytime soon.
2007-01-27 15:18:50 · answer #8 · answered by Gig 5 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Well, probably he likes playing with your little sister ,but he is not already ready for a child ofhis own because it takes much more care.
2007-01-27 15:35:30 · answer #9 · answered by FireStone 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No he's not ready. When he's ready he'll put a ring on your finger in front of your 200 closest friends.
2007-01-27 15:18:57 · answer #10 · answered by Heather Y 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋