My friend, Rachelle's best friend is pregnant her name is Jaylen. Jaylen told me bout her being pregnant. We are all in 7th grade. IDK wht gonna happen wht should i do?
2007-01-27 07:08:45 · 16 answers · asked by Kc m 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
There's no way even if i got to hell im gonna tell her mom. yes in seventh were only 12 and thirteen. She's not gona go to the consoluer thts weird. and then her mom will find out and she could be kicked out.
2007-01-27 13:47:42 · update #1
Im not having the kid. I dont **** w/ any guys!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-27 13:49:56 · update #2
Read all of this. Don't skip ahead.
DON'T TELL HER MOM!!!! She needs to tell her herself. I mean how would you feel if you were in her mother's position and had to hear of your daughter's pregnancy from someone else? You just have to be there for her and encourage her to tell her mother herself. And of course her mother isn't going to just shrug her shoulders and forget about it. She's probably going to be mad at first, but i would be too. But her mother will get over it and while she's still mad, just be there for her and encourage her and support her.
2007-01-27 14:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by <Me> 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's wrong with the world? Ok so if your in seventh grade your probably like 12 or 13. Well the first thing your friend has to do is be more careful. I know like a lot of 13 year olds where I live that don't even date yet. Then you should get a stupid pregnancy test and see if she is pregnant. If she is then you better go and tell her mom. Don't let your friend hide it your freind is gonna be in more trouble. And next time she should use protection.
~ kristin â¥
2007-01-27 15:34:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's gonna happen is she is going to have a baby. She will either keep it with the support of her parents or give it up for adoption. You just need to support her decisions and other than that stay out of the situation and don't get pregnant or have sex yourself. You can see where it leads. Jaylen made a life changing mistake and she is going to pay for it one way or another for the rest of her life. You and your friends need to learn from this and don't give in to hormones or some boy's crap line. It can cause a world of hurt (as you will see and are seeing).
2007-01-27 16:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there's nothing you can do really. She's a baby having a baby. The biggest mistake she could have made in the world. She's barely lucky she didn't get an STD. Your in seventh grade, you should be focusing on your school work, making plans for your future, not having sex. If she keeps the baby her life plans are almost down the toilet because no one ever said your parents are required to help you. This girl just barely began puberty and is having a baby...it just shows there is something seriously wrong with our culture today. Sure kids your age in other cultures are having babies, but that's how THEIR culture works. In most cultures girls are usually married by thirteen, especially in India. I don't know if they do that anymore though.
2007-01-27 16:15:03 · answer #4 · answered by Allyson B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell the guidance counselor at school. They have ways to help. This will probably mean that the girl's mom will find out (or whoever she lives with), but at least she will have choices at this point. If she waits too long she will not have any choices to make. A baby is a BIG deal. I am 32 and just had my first one and am completely overwhelmed. I am also a middle school teacher and know how pregnancy can be very scary for kids this age. PLEASE tell a responsible adult as soon as possible.
2007-01-27 16:17:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing is for Jaylen to make sure she gets medical care for her unborn baby. She needs to be taking vitamins and have a doctor watch how the baby is growing. Be there for her. I think her family should know and if she does not want the baby, adoption could make a wonderful family very happy.
2007-01-27 15:19:29 · answer #6 · answered by K L 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well think about it then decide not to have sex until your at least 15 perferably like 18 or older btw this is coming from an 8th grader so no im not a adult or parent secound she should find out how to get birth control pills or an adioption she is to young to take care of a baby and there are enough unwanted kids in foster care or an orphanage as it is
2007-01-27 18:14:41 · answer #7 · answered by Avaria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a hard situation but i would Definitly go see a doctor or talk to someone. She is a kid herself. Im 17 and im having my first child right now. I think im to young too but i have people that are going to help me out. She needs to be very careful because if she is going to have this child she needs to think about he future and and her health right now. I know she might not want to tell her mother but i would if i was her because its not like she is going to kill her. She has to think about her life now.
2007-01-28 00:05:03 · answer #8 · answered by tasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what?jaylen mom need to know that,not been a tale teller or anything like that,but let your mom know,maybe she can call jaylen mom,if it is TRUE.
2007-01-27 15:16:34 · answer #9 · answered by hanagal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first she deserves to have these consequences my cuzin knows these consequences and she is in 7th grade also so tell her mother and also thell Jaylen congratulations she is gonna be a mommy!
2007-01-27 15:20:25 · answer #10 · answered by short stuff 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋