I feel like everyone I know is slipping threw my finger tips. My best friend is too busy for me now((even though this weekend she said she is relaxing but still doesn't want to hang out with me even though we havent hung out buy ourselves for like 3months now.)) And I feel like if i'm important enough to her then I think she can spare 1hour of her relaxation time to just go see a movie with me or something and with my other friend doesn't seem to talk to me anymore during lunch because she's talking to her other friends. My brother is moveing away because he's getting married. All the people I care about most seem to be just dissapearing. I feel so darn alone and I feel selfish because they have their own lives and I shouldn't be interfeering....what should I do?
2007-01-27 06:54:32 · 7 answers · asked by SweetCocoaAngel 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Yet she hung out with a group of friends on Friday with no trouble once so ever. So I sort of felt bad for that too.
Also, I tried telling her this but she always says the same thing thing 'Why are you so mean to me?" and i'm like "What? How am I mean? I'm not even yelling all i'm saying is that we need to hang out more just the two of us." then she goes on this rampage on how I don't except her and I need to be like her other friends because her other friends treat her better.....and i'm just sitting here confused because I do accept her for who she is it's just that when it comes to my feelings she doesn't care. When ever we talk she always has to have it point to her somehow. IT's sort of annoying. and yes I tried telling her this too but same rampage.
2007-01-27 23:47:33 · update #1
Hi! Are you having a Quarterlife Crisis? You really should read that book by Alexandra Robbins.
Things like this happen. but everything is going to be okay things will get better in fact you have to keep saying that and BELIEVE it!
Pray that God will give you a much Sociable life and watch new ffriends magically appear......you have to BELIEVE and have FAITH in the Lord.
Don't worry about this. Be sure to always have something to do whether it is School or work...make new contacts and things will be fine in no time!
There is no need for you to feel selfish!
2007-01-27 07:03:14 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel T. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ohh ughh i know exactly what u mean i feel the same way...sometimes all my friends are off doing their own things and its like everyone u rely on u cant depend on them anymore
i dont think you're selfish b/c then i'm selfish b/c i feel like i need my friends too... listen, i know it sucks but basically if u just wait people fall back into place...i won't talk to someone for 3 months and then we'll talk online or in school and suddenly we'll be hanging out again...so the best i can do in the meantime is just hang out and do work/veg out and read or w/e...usually the best thing to do is vent to the person and then at least you can get it off your chest, and sometimes they actually have no idea how much it bothered u so i would try that because maybe they're not deliberately hurting you...
if u find a better solution let me know but i think thats the best u can do
2007-01-27 07:25:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, know that you aren't selfish. just going through a time in your life where it seems hard to hang out with people. Just because it takes them time to get energy to hang out again doesn't mean they don't like you or anything. through your life you will have many people who you will meet people that will stay for a while, and then go on their way, and feeling alone happens to every one. I suggest that when you aren't hanging out with people you find something fun to do on your own.
2007-01-27 07:06:51 · answer #3 · answered by Alley 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try finding some new friends.
2007-01-31 03:56:19 · answer #4 · answered by pnn177 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a lier youare beautiful girl I love you,So I am selfish not you.
2007-02-03 20:52:40 · answer #5 · answered by anubhav_55 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant you figure out that she doesnt want to be your friend. get a life.
2007-02-03 12:08:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry have no idea
2007-02-04 06:19:11 · answer #7 · answered by jerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋