Lonliness in my soul?

Question

I feel like everyone I know is slipping threw my finger tips. My best friend is too busy for me now((even though this weekend she said she is relaxing but still doesn't want to hang out with me even though we havent hung out buy ourselves for like 3months now.)) my other friend doesn't seem to talk to me anymore during lunch because she's talking to her other friends. My brother is moveing away because he's getting married. All the people I care about most seem to be just dissapearing. I feel so darn alone and I feel selfish because they have their own lives and I shouldn't be interfeering....what should I do?

Answer 1

It sounds like this is a very difficult time for you since you are so use to having somebody there. I would try to talk to her and ask her why she's acting this way. Be up front with her about your feelings. If you can't see yourself doing that, then I would suggest for you to make your own friends or just be independent. Who needs people like her anyway, she probably doesn't want to hang out with you because she's spending all her energy on her other friends. Look I had friends like that myself and when that happened to me I decided to forget them and be happy with myself. You can't depend on anybody to make you happy and that's the truth girl. So, do other things to keep your mind at ease and be happy. Before you know it she will be calling you...trust me.

Answer 2

Learn to have a relationship with yourself... find what feeds your spirit... when you do that, you won't need other ppl to fill that for you anymore... don't misunderstand.. we all need ppl, we are social creatures... I think this is a time for you in your life to learn to love yourself, to have a deeper relationship with yourself... when you do that, all of a sudden all kinds of ppl will appear.. they'll be attracted to the energy you're giving off