It is difficult at first to let go of someone even if we do the dumping, don't feel stupid you aren't the only one to do this it is a natural progression in the leaving process. At first you want to cling to what you know, no matter what the consequences as you become stronger you will cling less and less, just like when you first go into the deep end in the swimming pool at first you cling on to the side and eventually you go further out until you can go right across the pool without anyone with you.
You will venture further out soon, but only when you are ready be careful that you aren't done for harassment though in the meantime.
2007-01-27 06:47:24
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answered by Anonymous
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You need to find something to take your mind off him. Time is a great healer.Take advice from someone who has been there and done that. Delete his No from your phone and change your number. hen you cant call him and he will wonder why and try to call you. When he cant get you he will think you got a life and poss a new man and trust me he will call and he will probably want you back. It may take a while but hopefully by then you will turn your life around and be able to tell him to get stuffed. I recommend you go buy a book by paul McKenna called how to mend a broken heart.
2007-01-27 09:47:59
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answered by Anonymous
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When you care about someone it takes a while to get over them. Time heals. Try and enrich the other areas in your life and also I don't now how old you are but if you are over 18 then try dating around. It does not have to be sexual, just get taken out, be told how beautiful you are etc etc, your confidence will return and you will see there are other guys too.. Good luck
2007-01-27 06:52:55
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answered by jupiter 3
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Sorry, but you should feel stupid- for one thing, this is in the cars and transportation catagory...
As difficult as it seems right now- it will get better. Why would you want to hang on to someone who obviously does not appreciate you and all you bring to a relationship? You are young. File this info away and don't make the same mistake again- that's how you get over it. Good luck sweetie. Be blessed.
2007-01-27 06:47:18
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answered by skayrkroh 3
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You can't let go because you're a bit angry and hurt. If you've been with this person long, you're used to talking thru life's hurts with him. Now you're hurting and you want someone to talk it through with.
Keep using boards like this to get answers and eventually you will have "talked it out."
You might try a Yahoo Group. Simply type in relationships
http://groups.yahoo.com/
Here's a group where people who have gotten dumped can talk it over
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Getting_Dumped/
2007-01-27 06:47:23
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answered by hawkthree 6
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don't feel stupid you are just missing the good side and it will go away just give it the time and stop calling him because if he wanted you then you two would be together so do yourself a favor and go out on the town and have fun.
2007-01-27 06:42:20
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answered by Good ol boy 2
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It takes time to get over it, but try phoning your mates up whenever you get the urge to phone them.
Why not start going out meeting new people take your mind off the
2007-01-27 06:42:26
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answered by scragette2000 5
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it's worse for the dumpee, because you are on the receiving end. I really sympathise, I know it is difficult but if he doesn't want you any more then try and accept it and move on. You are really worth more than wasting yourself on someone who doesn't value you .... find someone who loves you and thinks you are the best thing in his life. He's out there somewhere! Please don't waste yourself or undervalue yourself ... you really are worth more than this. Be brave.
2007-01-27 06:45:23
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answered by gorgeousfluffpot 5
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You are wasting your time just go out and enjoy your self , pick up with your single friends ,go clubing get him out of you system ,you will soon find someone new.
ps I wish i lived near you
2007-01-27 06:48:52
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answered by Mick 4
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Maybe because he dumped you had it have been the other way round it might have been diffrent,give it time
2007-01-27 06:41:59
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answered by Anonymous
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