I want to send flowers to this woman i work with. I am truly falling in love with her. The reason i ask is i have only known her since mid-December and she is still going through her divorce. It should be final soon in the next couple of months. So would it be inappropriate?
2007-01-27 06:23:29 · 10 answers · asked by stevencaman 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Holidays ➔ Valentine's Day
sending flowers to a woman in her situation is kinda inapropriate.. but you could always send her some with just a friendly message in it, just to let her know that you are there for her and i think after you send her a sweet but friendly message she will start thinking about you in the way that you think about her, just play it slow and im sure it will turn out great
good luck
2007-01-27 07:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends can send friends flowers. As long as you don't put anything pushy or out-of-line on the card, there should be no problem.
Just let her know that you are available if she wants to talk. Make sure she is interested in you before you start pouring affection on her.
Make sure there isn't a policy against employees dating each other within your company's rules.
Don't ask her on an actual date until her divorce is complete. You never know if she will decide, at the last minute, to return to her relationship.
Good Luck.
2007-01-27 06:34:58 · answer #2 · answered by Nepetarias 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If your friend is still not divorced it would be very unwise to send flowers . This could cause all kinds of problems for her. It could be used against her as evidence that she is having inappropriate behavior. until her divorce is final she is to remain uninvolved with anyone else. After the divorce she is legally free to again begin dating,and socializing with members of the opposite sex.
2007-01-27 06:39:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of it may well be incredibly candy which you will deliver alongside no longer basically flora yet a sprint crammed animal to flow alongside with them and make effective the cardboard that is going with them shows which you cherish her FRIENDSHIP. some thing lovable and sunny, like daisies and shiny colours. Roses are too high priced, too formal and too romantic for a 'friendship bouquet'. Or deliver alongside a dish backyard (plant life), that may not die in some days and could provide her some thing to look after if she has a green thumb. that is needed to stick to it up with a 'telephone call and purely chat for a rapid time. One advice: deliver them to her domicile. in any different case, her co-workers, for reasons all their very own, would desire to commence teasing her approximately her "new romance and boyfriend" that may get lower back to her long distance sweetie. you comprehend how rotten some people may well be. The floral companies those days have all kinds of arrangements that are strictly from one pal to a distinctive with no longer something romantic implied or in contact. The florist marketplace may well be bankrupt if basically fans sent bouquets to a minimum of one yet another! I say decide for it, James. and you're a competent pal to think of of it. desire this facilitates and bless you for being a competent guy, James.
2016-11-01 10:34:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably, what you don't know is where her head and heart are still at. Maybe she's still trying to reconcile or has not gotten past her heartbreak, either way she's vulnerable and this would only complicate her choices. Its great that you feel for her but you have to be sure that she is open to your advances at this moment in time before you take the next step.
2007-01-27 06:34:54 · answer #5 · answered by southforty1961 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. Flowers are a nice way to let her no how you feel. Every woman loves to get flowers. Makes her feel special
2007-01-27 07:11:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait till she's divorced to do anything like that for her. It's just wrong. But if you can't resist, flowers are nice, but most women love expensive chocolate. (ex: Godiva, sees).
2007-01-27 07:07:40 · answer #7 · answered by bluestar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to the local florist and have them help you select a friendship bouquet,and send it that will be a good start
2007-01-27 06:36:51 · answer #8 · answered by petemeup b 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it would make her happy to that some body like her ,so no go for it ,and tell me what will happen!
2007-01-27 06:37:15 · answer #9 · answered by storm 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not at all
2007-01-27 07:11:57 · answer #10 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋